[brittlesxo]

I am lonely. I am hurt and I feel empty. My chest hurts and I haven't gotten out of bed in 3 days. I've been calling out of work and I'm ignoring my friends. All I do is lay in bed and cry.

My boyfriend of 13months told me he wants a break. I found out he cheated on me. I gave him my EVERYTHING. We went from living together for 9 months, to not seeing each other at all the past week. I know, "get over it" but I CANT. I've developed such an attachment to him. I'm scared to be without him. I can't tell my family because they'll just say "I told you so." They never liked him. Nor did my friends. So here I am, by myself with nobody to talk to. Alone. Thinking. Crying.

I feel LOST. I'm in an extreme amount of physical, and mental pain.

[mazing]

I know it is a few days late but sending hugs. I'm sorry about your boyfriend Break-ups are hard, especially when there is cheating and betrayal of trust involved.

I'm not sure what to say except take your time - feeling scared and betrayed is normal after something like that. Take small steps as you are ready to do so. I know it seems like everything is lonely at the moment but it can get better with time.

[Rohag]

And it had to happen at this time of year... I'm sorry.

Please make yourself at home at PsychCentral and be sure to search through the Relationships and Communication Forum as well.

From PsychCentral:

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[gma45]

Sending positive vibes your way. Make yourself get out of bed shower it is amazing how great water can make you feel. Also sending hugs too!

[Katwoman4]

I am sorry. You were not treated kindly. Your bed probably feels safe and cozy. I love being in my bed more than anywhere. It is my own island.
If we were closer, I would bring ice cream, tissue with lotion and sit on your feet for awhile.