[Fuzzybear]

I was trying to be honest "somewhere else" and I got told about my "pitty pot".
That's ok, I suppose I was whining....
But then I get told I'm too quiet.....
ah well


back to my cave

I'll still be around to give hugs and talk to anyone who wants to chat

[doggiedo]

Aw, Hang in there. Not sure who told you this, but people can be a little insensitive somethings. Sometimes people are in a mood and they react poorly to people who aren't in the same "mood" as them. Keep posting here - we understand and support you.

[Fuzzybear]

ps I don't need anyone to tell me how that person was mean,
they aren't a mean person.

Its me who doesnt freaking belong in this world.....

[Fuzzybear]

thanks, yes thats it, a little insensitive sometimes, like we all are (or I am anyway)
but when I am
I'm like the most horrible person in the world
(not because of anyone here
its all me, i'm a horrible person
and now i'm really whining
so will shut up

thanks so much for your post!

[lynn P.]

Awwww ((Fuzzybear)) - sometimes it seems as the saying goes, "we're damned if we do and damned if we don't". I want you to feel relaxed and express yourself as you feel comfortable. I'm not tired of seeing your posts and I'm happy you're expressing yourself. I also see you're trying to be more self caring and assertive - these are good things.

Stick with people who are consistently nice and patient with you. We're all needy sometimes. We also can't please everyone. Its better to let it out, than stifle and stuff it inside. This is one of the purposes of PC - to let members express their feelings. Can you pinpoint what's making you feel this way ((Fuzzy))? Please do what makes you comfortable.

You are not whining. I am willing to listen to you. What is this somewhere else? I am glad you are here.

Originally Posted by Fuzzybear

thanks, yes thats it, a little insensitive sometimes, like we all are (or I am anyway)
but when I am
I'm like the most horrible person in the world
(not because of anyone here
its all me, i'm a horrible person
and now i'm really whining
so will shut up

thanks so much for your post!

You're wrong ((((((((((((Fuzzy))))))))))))

You're
Kind
Caring
Loving
Thoughtful
Friendly.

I will always listen to you

[lynn P.]

I only saw your last 2 posts after I wrote mine. I'm sorry you're blaming yourself and I wish you wouldn't. Sure we all can improve ourselves, but I haven't seen any evidence you're a horrible person who doesn't belong in this world. When people are very down, they usually criticize themselves. I hope you'll treat yourself like a best friend.

[Fuzzybear]

Happycheeks, the "somewhere else" is another place I go somewhere where some kind people go. Sometimes I feel like I don't "belong" there though

[Fuzzybear]

Thanks everyone for your replies


furry paws

[Rohag]

((((((( Furry Paws! )))))))
((((((( Furry Paws' words )))))))
((((((( Furry Paws' silence )))))))
((((((( Everything Furry Paws would like to say but doesn't )))))))

[depressedalaskan]

((Fuzzybear))
We as people do not always,
think a like,
live the same way,
beleive in the same things,
understand one another or
agree on the same subjects.

If you are around people that do not understand; know that they have a problem not you.

[Fuzzybear]

Thanks so much everyone!

love,
fuzzy

[dazeofdolphins]

So what if you whine? Who is it hurting, really? A little whine with your cheese? I live near the wine country in California and I say INDULGE. They would not have created so many wineries if they didn't expect people to whine at times - ha! Enjoy your pity party if it makes you feel better. Seriously!

[BuggsBunny]

Sorry I'm off topic, but
22 days, for Buttercup!