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Old Mar 27, 2006, 06:37 PM
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Old Mar 27, 2006, 09:03 PM
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Thank you sweetie! You are very nice and kind!

But people wants me to be different. I don't know how. It makes me sad because I don't understand who they want me to be. I feel they are discusted with who I am. So it's just makes me sad.
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{{{TimeO}}} If theyre disgusted with you, it sounds like they don't know you Don't know
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Old Mar 28, 2006, 12:32 AM
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You are maybe right but I am very stupid at times. Maybe that's why they want me to be different.

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Old Mar 28, 2006, 07:49 AM
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Old Mar 28, 2006, 09:44 AM
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Thank you!

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I think there is too much negative in my life and I am fighting alone.
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Old Mar 28, 2006, 10:21 AM
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I do not think you are stupid. I do not feel you need to change. I think you are wonderful just as you are.
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Old Mar 28, 2006, 10:48 AM
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time0 the only problem as I see it is that ppl who want to change you are afraid of your kindness and strength to support ppl, IMO you DO NOT NEED TO CHANGE
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Old Mar 28, 2006, 06:05 PM
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IMO, people who want to change others, need a little changing themself.

I dont think you should change anything about you. We love you just the way you are.
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Old Mar 28, 2006, 07:53 PM
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People that want you to change are the ones who need to change themselves. They don't like something about themselves so they want you to change to suit their needs...you do not need to do this at all!

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Thank you so much dear one! Your kindness is wonderful!

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Old Mar 28, 2006, 08:48 PM
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Thank you sweetie!

This sentence really made me stopped and think:

"they want you to change to suit their needs.."

When I read this sentence it's my husband that came first to my mind and then others has followed. He says a lot" If you were not like this or that we would be in a better situation. You have to change or we will always be in a mess. Do you like to be a failure?! It's because of who you are that we have failed! "

Thank you! ((((((((((Lexicon)))))))))))))You are one special lady!

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Old Mar 29, 2006, 05:32 AM
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I can't describe the feeling of rage and anger that I feel from just reading what your husband says to you. (((Time))) - you don't deserve comments like that. Nobody does. Please know that you are not a failure. No matter how many times your husband might lead you to feel you are. I am so sorry that he does not support you.
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Old Mar 29, 2006, 05:32 AM
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I can't describe the feeling of rage and anger that I feel from just reading what your husband says to you. (((Time))) - you don't deserve comments like that. Nobody does. Please know that you are not a failure. No matter how many times your husband might lead you to feel you are. I am so sorry that he does not support you.
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No my husband doesn't support me. I don't have any support except in here which I appreciate very much!

Sometime I think he has narcissistic personnality disorder but this is only my opinion.

You are very nice sweetie to keep on replying to me.
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No my husband doesn't support me. I don't have any support except in here which I appreciate very much!

Sometime I think he has narcissistic personnality disorder but this is only my opinion.

You are very nice sweetie to keep on replying to me.
Thank you so much! Don't know

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Old Mar 29, 2006, 09:01 PM
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Don't know I'm so sorry your husband isn't supportive. And on top of that you don't have other support in rl. You seem like such a lovely person timeO so even though it's hard, try to shut out your husband's stupid comments. Maybe he doesn't realize it but I think he's being quite cruel.
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Don't know I'm so sorry your husband isn't supportive. And on top of that you don't have other support in rl. You seem like such a lovely person timeO so even though it's hard, try to shut out your husband's stupid comments. Maybe he doesn't realize it but I think he's being quite cruel.
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((((time0)))) hey...could you take a narcissism quiz as if you were HIM??? lol then you would know if he is or not Don't know

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