[skittles]

i need to start my life over.. need to move to a new state ..get a new job there.... (which i dont have one now) i wanna move down to south carloina with my cousin till i get on my feet.. but my b/f doesnt want to ... sigh... im hopiong to talk him into it.. but i dont think its gonna work... i just wanna crawl under a rock and never come back out

[cherybery]

((((((((((((((((skittles))))))))))))
Hon if you have the opportunity to have support and do something for yourself then you should do it. Sounds like your cousin is willing to have you stay there. If this is what YOU need for yourself then maybe it would be a good thing.
HUGS
Cher

[SongBirdandDaisy]

Skittles,

I agree. If you have the oppertunity and it seems like the right thing to do, then, if you boyfriend cares for you, he will go to. If not, well then, as they say "there are plenty of fish in the sea". Not to say dump him, but what kind of support is he if he doesn't have your needs in mind as well? I don't know your relationship, so perhaps I'm speeking out of turn.

But, my experience tells me that sometimes we need to reevaluate our relationships because they may not be the kind that is good for us. Sometimes, especially with a personal history, we attract that which we are trying to get away from. Just a thought.

Good Luck,
SongBird