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Old May 07, 2006, 09:15 AM
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last night i was talking to my mom and was asking her about the father i never knew or even met... she told me that he died a few years ago.. i asked her his name and things about him and she said she didnt like to think about him.. she wouldnt even tell me his name... she said maybe one day ill tell u soon... im not sure how to feel about this.. knowing that ill never met my father or know him at all and she wont even tell me his name.... kinda messed up..
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Old May 07, 2006, 04:39 PM
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Skittles, I am adopted and met my biological mother a few yrs back.... she wouldn't talk about my father either... it is not a good feeling.... time sould help, I realised there is just nothing I can do about it....
my heart goes out to you,
wishing you the best,
Patricia xx not sure how to feel about this not sure how to feel about this not sure how to feel about this
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Old May 08, 2006, 09:17 AM
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Could you go to the county courthouse and check out your birth certificate?
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Old May 08, 2006, 10:22 AM
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Skittles, your mom might be going through some issues of her own.. Time might bring about a change with her.... Is his name on your birth certificate? If so you might be able to trace him that way....Lilith
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Old May 08, 2006, 10:51 AM
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no his name isnt on my birth certificate
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Old May 08, 2006, 04:27 PM
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Hi Skit -

I like your new avatar.

I think you have a right to know who your birth father is, unless there is a safety issue.

This has to be very upsetting to you.

Hugs,

EJ
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Old May 08, 2006, 06:46 PM
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Hi Skittles,
She may be trying to protect you by not giving you information on him. Or as Lilith said, she may have her own issues.
It must be stressful wondering why it's being kept secret from you. I'm sorry about that.
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