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Aug 27, 2012, 03:29 AM
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Hi everyone have been with my husband for just over 6 years , he can be wonderful but other times he is completely horrible we can never have an argument where he doesn't verbally abuse me berate me degrade me . I don't like going out anyone because he can become very angry and violent after drinking too much an I think that's why I just don't like going anywhere anymore . I know part of me loves him and I know that if I didn't live so far away from my family for support I would have left him a long time ago and I honestly think that is the only reason why I haven't left . I just don't know if I have the strength to leave or if I have the strength to do it. Why do I stay ..
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Aug 27, 2012, 04:48 AM
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I’m sorry you are going through that. Do you have children? I’m the oldest of five and my dad was a beast to my mum and us, and I grew up hating her for not doing anything about it. Looking back I can see how difficult it would have been to leave with five kids.
There wasn’t much help beck then but there is now. You don’t have to stay in an abusive situation. Imagine what your life with him will be like in say five years time. Do you really want to put up with that? Take care of yourself. 
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Aug 27, 2012, 05:15 AM
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I don't want to put up with it he thinks all I do is feel sorry for myself and mope he doesn't understand my depression and is sick of hearing about it, he doesn't want to deal with it anymore . He just said I should go and move back with my dad .
I just don't know what the right decision is I'm sitting on my bed crying and all he can do is yell at me over the phone. I just feel like dieing would be so much easier |
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Aug 27, 2012, 05:18 AM
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I’m sorry it’s so bad. Sounds to me like you need to make some decisions or life will make them for you.
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Aug 28, 2012, 02:11 PM
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I to know what your going through over the last 37 years my life has been a hell on earth with his mood swings i have been beaten and made to feel less than human i stayed because of my children now they have there lives. now all my family ie brothers are living abroad i am 58 years old and trapped to ill to work and to scared at my age to move out.please seek help go to your doctor or the womens aid even if you have children please please seek all the help you can get it will only get worse i know.i am living with a man i hate for what he has done to me.and believe me that is no live.thinking about you x
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