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Old Nov 24, 2012, 08:38 AM
Salvatore27 Salvatore27 is offline
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I tried befriending people but nobody cared about me when I needed them...I don't know why people just screw me over and over again...What did I do to deserve all this?
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Old Nov 24, 2012, 03:25 PM
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Hello & Welcome, Salvatore27!
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...why do people don't respond and help us when we need them?
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I tried befriending people but nobody cared about me when I needed them...I don't know why people just screw me over and over again...What did I do to deserve all this?
I know little of you, but I suspect the only thing you 'did' was simply be different. I don't blame you for isolating.

If you care to, tell us more.
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Old Nov 24, 2012, 07:00 PM
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Welcome to PC Salvatore27.

I hate to tell you this, but it is the way of the world. From my experience, it seems that humans are just selfish beings that only do things to gain other things for themselves. People only make friends to gain something out of it, and if they cannot see anything to gain, they will not bother. I have no friends because I have nothing to offer. I do not know the solution of this problem.

But listen, you didn't do anything to deserve this. It is my thinking that no one deserves anything. Things just happen. Everything happens for a reason. I'm sorry, I'm not sure what else to say.
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Old Nov 25, 2012, 11:49 AM
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Hi Salvatore, sometimes I really don't know what to say but I just wanted to tell you that you're not alone in how you feel. People do often seem to just want to get something for themselves out of friendship. I am new here but I already feel better knowing that people here really understand each other. Just wanted to say hi and welcome!
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Old Nov 25, 2012, 04:40 PM
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Thanks for your warm support Kelly..I really appreciate it...I think there's just nothing we can do to change the selfishness people show these days...Inspite of that thank heavens there's still people like you out there who still care....God bless you!
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Old Nov 26, 2012, 01:44 PM
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I'm sorry you are going through this. I feel the exact same way right now....every person I talk to in my state treats me like crap and stops talking to me after weeks of me getting to know them.
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Old Nov 30, 2012, 07:56 PM
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Hey Salvator it is hard to keep your heart open when it seems people hold so little value of friendships, it seems alot of people are selfish and put themselves above all others but there are some good kind people out there i think they are hard to find maybe because they too are suffering and have little faith in people as we do. its hard not to blame ourselves when friendships fail but we have to believe we are good people, we are suffering because we care too much i think. you sound like a good person, very honest and kind, maybe people see this as a weekness. i hope things get better for you and you dont blame yourself for how these people have treated you, its not a reflection on you but only on them, how heartless they are.
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