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Old Nov 24, 2012, 08:33 AM
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So I have been feeling completely withdrawn since the past few years...I tried befriending people...I feel like I really tried reaching out to them I took keen interest in them hoping that some would care enough to give me a message on the internet now and then or maybe call me once in a while...I have been so disappointed by the response I got from people that now I have completely shut myself out...I simply hate meeting people and I dread office get togethers and I become very irritated when I have no option but to speak to people who couldn't care less about me...But inspite of all this I feel very depressed even when I keep telling myself I am better off without them...I joined here to give vent to my feelings...I wont go against my dignity but I do need a good friend.... So if anybody wants to give me some comfort I would be most grateful and I will go out of my way for them...I feel that we should go out of our way for others but why do people don't respond and help us when we need them?
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Old Nov 24, 2012, 01:00 PM
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It is hard. And I assume you are still young. At least when you are old you can tell yourself maybe it is enough just to be there for other people. Then again if you are young you do have a better chance of making friends.
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Old Nov 24, 2012, 05:22 PM
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Yea I guess youre right...I do think nobody should feel alone in this one and everyone should have someone they can count on...
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Old Nov 30, 2012, 08:05 PM
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I am the same Salvator i try so hard to help people i think i am a good friend and do anything i can to make them happyy and feel good but when it come to me needing support they are nowhere to be found. i would love to call you a friend, you seem like such a genuine open kind person and friends like you are hard to find. i hope i can help you feel better about yourself. you are a good person, forget thoes guys they are hard and empty and dont deserve a friend like you
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Old Dec 01, 2012, 06:04 AM
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Hi Salvatore,

just wanted to let you know I often feel the same. If you want to talk or need a friend, please pm me. Wishing you all the best
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Old Dec 01, 2012, 06:53 AM
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hi Savatore, there are many many lovely people here and if you give us a chance you will certainly find good friends, i'm always here if u ever want to chat and please don't give up on meeting new people this place has helped me so much.
Good luck to you and pm me anytime
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Old Dec 01, 2012, 08:12 AM
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Salvatore, I feel ya man. I have bad luck in the friend department. It's not that I don't want friends... just have difficulty meeting people. I don't have any advice on how to change this, sorry. At least you know you're not the only one feeling that way.
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