[sweetsurrender]

I am new to all of this. I have been trying really hard this week. I realize so many terrible things about myself. I have made so many mistakes and damaged so many relationships. I can't be the person everyone needs me to be. I feel so bad about myself, I feel disgusting. It all feels so useless, so pointless.

[HappiestGirl]

You are only human and we all make mistakes. It's hard for me to stop thinking about the past but I'm missing out on what I have now. Sometimes it helps me to write my eulogy. I know it sounds morbid but it feels good to know I mattered to someone and that they care about me. You would be missed.(((hugs)))

huggles.

hope you feel better

[Dan12345]

Everyone does stupid stuff. I know how you feel though just rationally think about things, what's done in the past is done can't change it, unless you have the ability of time travel. Set small goals to achieve and write down your progress. Get some confidence back. Lifes to short to focus on the past.

Ps
If you have the ability to time travel message me!

[Leed]

My friend, you cannot worry about what OTHER people want you to be!! All you need to do is to be YOU. YOU are the ONLY person you can be. You cannot be someone that you aren't. If other people don't like that, then they aren't real friends in the first place. A REAL friend takes you as you are, warts and all. A real friend knows all about your faults, and still likes you. If a person tries to change you, he's not a friend -- he's not worth the relationship.

So don't worry about other people and who they want you to be. You can only be YOU. Stick with the friends who like you for who you are, not who you MIGHT be later on.

We've all made mistakes and messed up relationships, but that doesn't make us disgusting or worthless. It might damage us temporarily, but we HEAL. You will too. You need to see a therapist -- ask your doctor to send you to a good therapist. He'll know who you should see. Make the call today! God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee

[Aleakim]

Hey, now. I feel worthless too and I feel the same. but know, NO ONE is worthless. You're not worthless.
I hope you feel better!

[bobslp]

Originally Posted by sweetsurrender

I am new to all of this. I have been trying really hard this week. I realize so many terrible things about myself. I have made so many mistakes and damaged so many relationships. I can't be the person everyone needs me to be. I feel so bad about myself, I feel disgusting. It all feels so useless, so pointless.

I am so glad you posted this. I have been having the same feelings and it feels so much better to know there are others that are in this with me. SS, I am not new to all this, been in it for a while. It can get better but it takes a little bit of learning why you feel like this and how do deal with it.
There have been times when my thoughts mirrored yours almost exactly. I wonder if being from KY has anything to do with our depression?? (western KY born & bred here)
I notice that you are a social worker? I'm an SLP. It happens to many of us. You'll get better.

[sweetsurrender]

Thanks everyone for the words of encouragement. I have a wonderful T and see her tomorrow.

[reeceaclarke]

every one makes mistakes your only human and you don't have to be the person every one needs you to be you have to be your self

[marks12]

The funeral speech is a very best t say something about death person but it should be correct and say with positives points. The funeral speech is hard task to complete but you should make preparation of it.

[Idiot17]

((((sweetsurrender))))