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Old Sep 26, 2013, 01:39 PM
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I have done something stupid things that I should not have done. Now I am really regretting it. I feel that I should be punished for it. The only way I feel I can forgive myself is by punishing myself, which I usually do by hurting myself somehow.

What should I do? Please help me before I do something else stupid that would hurt me.

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Old Sep 26, 2013, 02:37 PM
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I'm sorry, are you depressed? I'm confused.
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Old Sep 27, 2013, 07:32 AM
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The only way I feel I can forgive myself is by punishing myself...
Jegsu01, is this a life-long pattern?
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Old Sep 27, 2013, 07:35 AM
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I am going to ask this to you SERIOUSLY.... who hasn't done stupid things. Honestly - I have done so many stupid, embarassing things in my life.....

I hope you find a better way than to beat yourself up.
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Old Sep 27, 2013, 11:13 AM
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Jegsu01, is this a life-long pattern?
No it hasn't been life long just since I have been depressed
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Old Sep 27, 2013, 12:32 PM
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I am going to ask this to you SERIOUSLY.... who hasn't done stupid things. Honestly - I have done so many stupid, embarassing things in my life.....
I second that.

Beating yourself up for the mistakes you made is just another mistake I think. You don't deserve that. Whatever you've done is in the past. No matter how bad it is don't let it create more problems now. Leave it in the past where it belongs.

I hope you can heal and forgive yourself.

Also, if you are comfortable, would you like to tell us what happened? It might help you to share.

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