[Phoobear]

Its very hard for me to really really discipline my boy. When ever i do i feel like a bad mother and then it just give my depression more to feed on. Feeling that they would be better with another mom. I know i am his mom And only me but i just feel so worthless and then all the bad thoughts starts again. Will i get past this?

Can you delegate this task to your husband?

[Phoobear]

My husband is doing most of it but thats one reason why little one is walking all over me

[wisedude]

How do you discipline your child? How old is your child?

The most important thing is that you love your child, give them affection and provide them with a consistent, stable environment.

If you are persistently having thoughts of your own worthlessness, and mostly in a bad/negative mood, then you should definitely get some professional help!

[Phoobear]

He is nearly 4. Naughty corner, taking away favorite thing for n while. I am just not as strong as my husband with all this. But i have too do this because its out of love. Just need to get my Own worthiness beter

not that my mother was the perfect model..... but I recall as a kid pretty much every time I "got the belt" - right after that I would go up to my room and I could hear my mother sobbing in the bathroom.

Let me tell you - the spanking did not hurt me as much as knowing that I made my mother cry.

Point being - kids are smarter and more observant than a lot of us old people think they are.

Hang in there - I sincerely think you can do this.