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Oct 21, 2013, 08:00 AM
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i am so depressed for last 3 years about my lover.he loved me a lot after he saw one girl. when i studied final year of B.E, he worked in one organistaion and met one girl who worked with him in same team. she proposed to my lover and he told me to make angry on her. but i didnt take it as serious. after few days, i came to know that they roming everywhere and they went movie alone by my brother's bike. i asked to not talk wid her anymore but after they continue them relationship without my knowledge. i dont have trust on him.. i am hving lots of doubt on him..he not allowing me to live and he making me get depression deeply.. day by day he is losing my trust.. i had 100 percent trust on him before 2010.. now i am havin only 1% trust. so that still i have given him chance to talk wid me.. but i need him desparately. i love him truely and i cant live without him.. i dont like anyone and i cant able to concentrate to any work..plz help me.. now she got married and he didnt contact her for past 1 year... now what my fear is" he will accept her in future and they may continue them relationship in future" or " he will see another girl and will avoid me"... he is perfect now but i cant accept him truely.. i have lots suspectation towards him.. plz help me..fault is not mine .. for past 7 years i didnt love anyone and i didnt roam with anyone.. even he knows that.. i will look good more than him..
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Oct 21, 2013, 01:21 PM
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You deserve better than what he has to offer. He is breaking your heart and will continue to do so until it is completely broken because you love him, and he is using this against you. You know you cant go on like this.
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Oct 21, 2013, 10:34 PM
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Oct 22, 2013, 03:30 PM
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Only you can answer that. You are already having doubts. Can YOUforgive him and move on. If you can, its worth a shot but if you feel you cant trust him then you really have no future. Best wishes.
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Oct 22, 2013, 04:58 PM
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I agree with Piero. Only you can answer the question, "Can you forgive him", "Can you trust him?" Personally, I would so out of there his head would be spinning.
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Oct 22, 2013, 10:41 PM
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Hmm i can accept him. he is perfect now.. he talked with that girl because of me. that time i wont give any time to ask his feelings. that time some distance was maintained between us. so that space was filled by that girl. now i broken that space by showing my love over him. nowadays he used to say " Please get out of that mind. i will be perfect more than you will expect. sure i wont do that mistake again". even i can feel that he is perfect now. but sometime feeling like he is addicted by S@x.. at that point i dont know what to do.. i will cry at maximum point. i will get depressed. he is not showing any interest to me nowadays. if i ask regarding this he will say "you are not trusting me so i dont like to talk anymore. if you trust me sure i will show my love. i will lying at your feet".. please help me.. now my doubt is " can i trust him anymore? can i start my life with him? can i believe he wont repeat this mistake again?" still i love him more.. but i cant able to show my love on him(my painful heart not letting him to accept anymore).. what to do? just give some suggestion to heal my pain..
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Dec 06, 2013, 08:17 AM
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You are right pierro... last week he went to see one girl without my knowledge.. he broken my hearts completely.. At every mistakes which he done, i am giving him some chance really he is not suits for me.. he will deserve my love..he don't have any quality to feel my love.. really he hurting me a lot. nowadays i am getting remember his face in every suituation.. he hurted me.. i dont have any words to express my painfull feelings.. it feels like" someone lancinating my heart with knife"  .. still i am loving him (see my madness)
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Dec 06, 2013, 09:20 AM
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IMO - there is no worse pain than the broken heart. And I never did learn how to heal it (sorry - no words of wisdom here)....
But I **do** wish you all the best and I have a feeling that you will find someone worthy of your love in the next year. I hope you are open to receiving it..... |
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