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Old Nov 16, 2006, 12:13 PM
pamelasu pamelasu is offline
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I found out today that my Pilates teacher got fired and will not be returning next semester as a teacher. Way to go about being persistant in what I believe in. Why do I get the feeling that it is all my fault that she is not going to be here next semester? NO NO NO NO NO........I can't think this...She got fired because she did something wrong not because of me....Lord I need help!! What a way to being persistant....

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Old Nov 16, 2006, 02:15 PM
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try not to blame urself...if she hadn't done anything wrong, she wouldn't have gotten fired, u can't be responsible for the actions of others so it's not ur fault
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Old Nov 16, 2006, 09:50 PM
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(((((((pamelasu)))))))))

NO. It is NOT your fault. Things happen. It is not your fault. People make decisions, sometimes for good, and sometimes for worse.

Take care of yourself.
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Old Nov 16, 2006, 10:21 PM
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I know it's not my fault but I feel somewhat responsible for it. What a way to being persistant....
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Old Nov 16, 2006, 11:06 PM
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I know it's not my fault but I feel somewhat responsible for it. What a way to being persistant....

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I understand. It's normal and you'll get through it, its just the process of accepting that it wasn't your fault that's hard.

*HUGS*
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Old Nov 17, 2006, 09:17 PM
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I'm sure it's nothing you did that got her fired, it's just hard when you really like someone and think they are doing a good job and then you end up losing them.
I'm so sorry for that.
I hope that the person they replace her with will be just as good as the other girl.
Sorry,
Linda
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