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Nov 21, 2006, 12:22 AM
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i am dating someone, but he didn't call me back today and i am worried he doesn't like me. sounds so jr. highish, but i just feel so vulnerable - feel like i won't survive if he breaks up with me...
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#2
Nov 24, 2006, 06:36 PM
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how long have you been dating, ouch?
if you like this person, you are bound to feel insecure, but you will learn to trust them and when they get to know you and you get to know them this insecurity will pass. and you will be able to enjoy the relationship for all that it is. if he didnt call you, maybe he has a good reason for it. maybe you should call him, if he rings you everyday it might be good for a change. you will survive, you have done before, and you can again. but try not to think of that until it actually happens, which i doubt after one missed call. take it easy and just relax abit, feeling tense and insecure to a large extent can put alot of strain on a relationship. so just accept the relation for what it is and just go witht he flow. speak soon simon |
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Nov 24, 2006, 08:14 PM
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he did call back and he calls everyday. I am slipping back into depression, I can feel it - I really hope I can keep it together so he doesn't notice... What if I can't?
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#4
Nov 25, 2006, 08:29 AM
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maybe you can let him know how you feel... do you think he will leave you if you told him about your depression, or do you think he will try to help?
never ever try to hide depression, it makes it worse, always. i would never advise anyone to hide depression, or to run from it. it will snowball and only get worse. simon |
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#5
Nov 25, 2006, 02:05 PM
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we have just started dating - so i think he would run
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#6
Nov 25, 2006, 07:46 PM
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well you will know when the right time is, but until then, remember that we are always here for you to vent and to heal. sometimes partners dont always understand how we feel, so its sometimes a good idea to not tell them everything. aut at least you have this place to turn to.
i wish you all the best in your new relationship and i hope the 2 of you are very happy together, you certainly deserve it. take care simon |
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Nov 25, 2006, 11:23 PM
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hang in there sweetie...I know exactly how you feel. Tell him when it's right for you, but let him know you're working some emtional things out so it can give him the opportunity to be understanding instead of confused.
Take care of yourself first *hugs* We're all here for you! |
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#8
Nov 26, 2006, 11:13 AM
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Even saying 'some emotional things' seems scary to me. We just started dating - it doesn't look good. I'm really hoping I can somehow keep it together the days when we meet - luckily he's really busy this time of year with work, so I don't seem him enough for it to be really noticeable yet.
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