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Old Jan 28, 2014, 05:36 PM
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I want to out live all the XXXholes that I am surrounded by. Some have gratefully passed on, but are still causing loved ones much pain.
I will try my best to outlive as many as I can.
I will try to help ease some of the pain they have caused, in life and after their deaths.
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What are some of your reasons for living?
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Old Jan 29, 2014, 12:47 PM
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I want to out live all the XXXholes that I am surrounded by. Some have gratefully passed on, but are still causing loved ones much pain.
I will try my best to outlive as many as I can.
I will try to help ease some of the pain they have caused, in life and after their deaths.
That is most commendable, and this...
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Walking on leaves that are like crunchy clouds. Angels are powerful and strong. Your life is precious.
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What are some of your reasons for living?
Not an easy question for me...
Not giving in to despair is important to me.
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Old Jan 29, 2014, 01:07 PM
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I want to out live all the XXXholes that I am surrounded by. ......
F___ them. this world sucks - they can outlive me and HAVE this crappy world.
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Old Jan 30, 2014, 09:03 AM
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F___ them. this world sucks - they can outlive me and HAVE this crappy world.
Yeah, I feel this way sometimes.
Parts of our world are very sucky.
I do love the beauty in Nature, even after I have been harmed by it.
I am inspired by people like snowboarder Amy Purdy. She is only 19 and lost her legs to bacterial meningitis.
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Old Jan 30, 2014, 09:12 AM
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I know, it gets better. Check this article, quite interesting.

Awake! Magazine, April 2014: Why Go On???Three Reasons to Keep Living
Why go on? Three reasons to keep living
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Old Jan 30, 2014, 09:15 AM
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I live for my daughter. She is everything to me. As long as I have her and am not a burdon to her I will try to stay alive.
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Old Jan 30, 2014, 10:25 AM
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My reasons for living:
- My Wife
- So many books I'd love to read, records I'd love to listen to, etc...
- Family (at least, the ones I know really care about me)
- George Herbert's advice: "Living well is the best revenge"
- I still have something to contribute towards making the world better, I just haven't figured out what yet.

PS: Your post also reminded me of an old Modern Lovers song called Dignified and Old -- "But I can see through this bitterness and sadness, And so I won't die, Someday I think I'll be dignified and old"
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Old Jan 30, 2014, 11:01 AM
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I used to know the answer to your question. Now, I do not really know. Thank you for posting the question
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Old Jan 30, 2014, 03:07 PM
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These may not be correct answers, but I live so my therapist will be proud of me.

I have hope that someday I may have more hope.
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Old Jan 30, 2014, 04:31 PM
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Old Jan 30, 2014, 06:20 PM
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F___ them. this world sucks - they can outlive me and HAVE this crappy world.
Second that!
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Old Jan 30, 2014, 09:52 PM
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Thank you, allrush, for the PS quote, which is wonderful.

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My reasons for living:
- My Wife
- So many books I'd love to read, records I'd love to listen to, etc...
- Family (at least, the ones I know really care about me)
- George Herbert's advice: "Living well is the best revenge"
- I still have something to contribute towards making the world better, I just haven't figured out what yet.

PS: Your post also reminded me of an old Modern Lovers song called Dignified and Old -- "But I can see through this bitterness and sadness, And so I won't die, Someday I think I'll be dignified and old"
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Old Feb 01, 2014, 11:09 AM
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I know, it gets better. Check this article, quite interesting.

Awake! Magazine, April*2014: Why Go On???Three Reasons to Keep Living
Why go on? Three reasons to keep living
Lots of helpful ideas. Even though I am no longer a Christian nor do I belong to any organized religion.
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Old Feb 01, 2014, 11:15 AM
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I used to know the answer to your question. Now, I do not really know. Thank you for posting the question
Thanks for the cartoon! Now I don't feel so bad about being a better me.
Feel better when you are ready. Sooner, later, what ever is possible for you.
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Old Feb 01, 2014, 11:30 AM
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Second that!
Yep, it is so hard to keep my heart going. The person I loved the most does not like the new (more like the original) me. Luckily, the A-holes closest to me physically, are not in very good health.
My body, joints, and organs hurt, plus I have multiple scratches (from walking in the woods and my (Hubbs) dog, shingles (genital herpes?), and need glasses.
But I am determined to keep my physical form here as long as I can bear it.
I guess I need to be a Bear. My star sign is Capricorn the Goat, which seems to explain a lot. But I don't put much faith in that astrology stuff.
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