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Old May 23, 2014, 12:04 PM
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I am so lonely I have kids that do not want to be bothered and a boyfriend that is ashamed of me I do not have friends or family I sit all day every day in my room crying or asleep the holidays are the worst I am home alone wat can I do

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Old May 23, 2014, 12:39 PM
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Welcome to this forum. There are a lot of supportive people here...The lonely times - and I have a lot of them too, holidays or not - feel a bit less lonely when people reply to these posts, even if the replies are "yeah, I'm feeling that way too"...Keep coming back here ~ it helps.
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Old May 23, 2014, 01:04 PM
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Definitely, idk where I'd be if not for the lovely people here.
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Old May 23, 2014, 01:30 PM
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We all are here to help.. Never feel alone.. Share your feelings whether good or bad. Go to a place of beautiful nature. See the birds flying, flowers falling. This will make you feel that u are not alone at all. You can have a pet too. Dogs are lovable and caring too. You will definately get better.
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Old May 23, 2014, 02:04 PM
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Mssweet, glad you found Psych Central. It is a great place to make friends and fill up some of that lonely time. It's a very supportive and helpful place. I'm a Community Liaison, so if you need any help getting around the site let me know.
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Old May 23, 2014, 02:43 PM
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Hi mssweet, I get very lonely too. Coming on PC helps a little, but often I just have to deal with the loneliness and wait until my husband is available to be with me (like this afternoon - - he won't be home for another 2-1/2 hours so I'm left home with the internet and t.v., and dogs but the dogs don't help too much).

Here's hoping you will not feel so lonely. I hope coming on here and getting responses helps a little bit.

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Old May 23, 2014, 03:15 PM
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What do you mean you have no friends or family? Didn't you just say you have a boyfriend and kids? Just go and do something with them this weekend. Take a trip to a nature park or go to the swimming baths together. Spend some quality time with them and break the routine. Don't say you are lonely when there are people right there in front of you. Make the effort.
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Old May 23, 2014, 03:34 PM
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I'm sorry you feel this way. I know what it's like to have people around you and people who care and yet still feel alone. Maybe try a support group or volunteering? It's a good wAy to meet people with similar interests and in similar circumstances. Good luck and welcome to PC !
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Old May 23, 2014, 03:46 PM
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I am so lonely I have kids that do not want to be bothered and a boyfriend that is ashamed of me I do not have friends or family I sit all day every day in my room crying or asleep the holidays are the worst I am home alone wat can I do

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Being on here is a really good idea. People on here I have found to be very supportive, have come up with some really goood ideas, and who are just happy to talk yo you. I would encourage you to keep opening up.....a problem shared is a problem halved, and along the way I'm sure you'll pick up some useful ideas to help you. Most of all you'll note your not alone.

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Old May 24, 2014, 06:52 AM
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I too feel lonely and i can understand how it feels when there are people around you, yet u feel lonely. But trust me, dogs and nature helps me a lot. Don't think too much.. Try doing things u are interested in.. Join something.. some club or something like that. When i get angry, i work out a lot it helps me relieve my anger. When i feel bored, i draw paintings as m a good painter, When m upset, i listen to music you know the kind that rock u up, when m sad, i go to a place where i can see the best view of nature, birds chirping etc. But u have a husband, obviously you have much more to do like you can go out with yours kids and hubby. When your hubby is away, you can take your childeren out and shop for them. This way they'll enjoy too. Shop for yourself too.. I mean u've got a hell lot of things to do. So just chill and try what i said.. Stay blesssed
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Old May 24, 2014, 11:43 AM
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I wat to thank everybody for their support my family is not a close family they barely talk to me

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Old May 24, 2014, 05:45 PM
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Old May 24, 2014, 06:45 PM
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So sorry my friend. I get lonely too a whole lot. Please know you are not alone one bit. I am new here and so far I do feel so much better as I move around here reaching out to awesome people who understands my problems. I know it will continue to help. You can contact me anytime if you need a friend or to just talk.
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Old May 24, 2014, 08:55 PM
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Thank u I will do that

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