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Old Jun 13, 2014, 07:44 PM
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I hate this thing that people call life. I can't, i can't be part of it.
Some people are just not cut out for life, i'm that person. It wasn't made for me.
Life is not for me.
What is it anyway.
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Old Jun 13, 2014, 07:49 PM
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I am questioning it myself these days. it is what I make of it I guess. all I do is exist. I have a decent life I guess. but I have no joy. I don't experience it. I just exist from day to day. I do good for others. im appreciated. I wish I was happy. I wish I could live. I hope maybe one day and that is why I keep living.
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Old Jun 14, 2014, 10:31 AM
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Thank you for posting this. I totally can relate. Aren't we supposed to enjoy and live our present lives to the fullest? I feel like life will get better soon if i keep on living like this. But will it really? I'm already 32. My way of thinking is pretty much similar to when i was still a teen ager. I have a job, I'm earning enough. But somehow my life is still not the way I wanted it to be. Ive passed my 20s stage, but i feel like i haven't done anything special during that stage of my life. And now in my 30s, i still don't feel like I'm doing something good to my life.

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Old Jun 14, 2014, 11:50 AM
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I can relate. To me life is exhausting. I keep hoping it will get better, that things will change. But I have become so ill and tired I don't have the energy to fight my current circumstance or change anything anymore. I know somewhere though, we all have some purpose in this life.
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Old Jun 16, 2014, 12:23 PM
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Often I think like you, but it is wrong I guess. I wonder if you are thinking of a particular person or have a picture in mind when you think about "people that are cut out for life". I wonder because I do not think such a thing exists. Tell me if I am wrong, but when I read your post the idea of "fate" or "destiny" come to my mind. I do not know what you think, but to me "fate" does not exist. I think there is no place where your fate of not being cut out for life is written. Although I have to admit that some of us has been given some particular characteristics through genetics, early experiences, etc that make living harder, to me the worst part is our common heritage, I mean, the shortfalls that all human beings share. The good news is that our brain has some plasticity, and we can change our thoughts and behaviors. Perhaps there are some people that could not improve their lives even with a lot of effort but I do not think this is your case or mine.
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Old Jun 16, 2014, 12:37 PM
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Strange how I was just thinking the same thing earlier. It seems I've just struggled all my life, and bad things keep happening and I keep struggling, and it's getting harder and harder. I never felt cut out for life. I always had a hard time. But things are even harder now and I just don't feel able to do it sometimes. I worry incessantly. I'm scared all the time. My luck generally stinks. I can get so down when I think of what all I've gone through. And I feel so tired of the fight all the time. I've done it for years and am not winning. I'm there with you...
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