[Vhv91]

So, I was much better than I was a few days ago, partially beacause I felt like **** when I was smoking and I'm gonna complete 3 weeks without smoking this sunday, also 2 weeks without drinking soda (only water and juice).

Today I also confirmed my birthday party (which is next saturday) so I was pretty hyped about it. But something happened and now I'm feeling useless again...

Yesterday my friend broke up with his gf cuz she cheated on him again, but he was fine, not depressed, just angry with her, the problem is that I have a crush on a girl, and this girl is almost throwing herself at my friend... she sent him an audio file singing Blower's Daughter and she sings beautifuly but he doesn't even like that kind of song, they have nothing in common...

I'm single for almost 3 years now and I have many things in common with her, and she starts hitting on my friend on the same day he breaks up with his ex... why ? I'm almost canceling the party just so I don't have to see them together...

[Travelinglady]

Hey, Vhv91, and welcome. Yeah, that would be disappointing, but maybe it won't work out, so don't give up yet. In the meantime, be looking around for some girl you can at least be a friend with.

Yes, it will be a bit hard to see them together, if they are, but I think you will be busy having fun with others, so how about keeping your plans and not let anybody, and I mean anybody, mess with your getting better?

Congratulations on the not smoking and drinking soda. Great job, and keep it up!