why???

I told my husband to do with something with his girlfriend's letters... he kept that in his car and again lied me that he through it away. I feel like i am all crap. I left everything for him - my parents, my country, my friends, my life style, my necessity everything... Why does he not understand my love? I have been pateince with him from last 4 years. now i have no more energy............ I even forgive him(although he does not feel sorry for that) to lie me for 4 years( about his past) but why is he doing all this? why can not he forget his ex and start a new life with me? he married with me because of his parents. what was my fault? still i am trying to do things better. i almost cry all day.... thanks for listening. i really don't know what should i do? i feel like what's the point to live like this?

Hey...I'm sorry you are hurting.. but if he only makes you feel like crap and he didn't marry you for the right reasons, then maybe you should go back and leave him behind.... I dunno... life is too short to be miserable...

Life is meant to be enjoyed and filled with love and laughter... you deserve that much! FaithisAlive

i agree. if that is truly the only reason he married you, then you are worth so much more than that. Life is too short to let yourself suffer because someone else refuses to honor and love you for all of the great things that you are. have you tried sitting down and really talking to him about all of this?

yes, even few minutes ago. i wanted to talk to him and requested him to go to Marriage Counselor. but he refused it. he said that i am happy with what i am. Life is so miserable because i can not go back to my country ( some social and religious issue) and i can not divorce him and i can not live like this.......