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Also I've had depression and anxiety since I can remember, i never was just experiencing pleasure living a blissful life....sure sometimes I experience pleasure, sometimes I enjoy things but yeah much of the time I can't enjoy things I like or I have too much mental turmoil to enjoy things. The way I see it sure I am suffering but that doesn't mean I can't find distractions or ever experience pleasure....sometimes pleasure happens in the midst of suffering. Like say something not so great is going on in your life, yet you still go out and maybe have a couple beers with some close people and enjoy that time even though over-all you're still suffering. Also what makes pleasure the greatest aspect of humans? what about when people find pleasure hurting others is pleasure so wonderful than? I just am not getting where you got that experiencing pleasure is the greatest aspect of humans I can think of a number of other great aspects humans can have....like say helping each other. Why would finding greater value in things aside from pleasure cause any inferiority? that doesn't even make sense to me I'd think it would take a somewhat strong person to find more value in things aside from pleasure....like musicians who maybe care more about their music than pleasure, they can create something others will get something out of....how would that example be inferior? Also go pursue you're nice happy blissful life....good for you if you find a cure to all your ailments and don't experience any pain or suffering anymore. I myself am going to keep a realistic perspective and realize my life is going to continue being difficult and i'll just have to get by as best I can and find some enjoyment along the way hopefully leave a positive impression on some people or help some before my time in this world is over. Sounds more like pleasure is the most important thing to you, you're unhappy about not experiencing it so you've come up with all this to rationalize that not experiencing that makes you inferior and your life worthless...then going on to also try to convince anyone else with difficulty experiencing pleasure they are 'inferior' beings 'worthless' have worthless lives and shouldn't even be regarded as human, well this stuff you are saying really isn't true and telling people they are worthless and inferior is anything but inspiring actually. Also pleasure is just a matter of brain chemistry and biology just like feelings of dispair/misery so how is it if one experiences lots of pleasure they are a superior human being...but if they instead experience more despair and misery they are an 'inferior' biological robot...since both are simple biological functions wouldn't both make one a biological robot? Also if one only cares about pleasure there is plenty of other stuff that can go to ***** in their life, balance is actually a good thing.
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Where is the inspiration? seems more like trying to spread feelings of despair...'if you suffer from depression/mental health issues you are inferior' how is that supposed to be inspiring to anyone....seems if anything it would be a good thing to add to a check list of reasons why to commit suicide. . I do not think its people who value other things more than pleasure who drive me to feel suicidal..to be entirely honest, also I didn't lose something that made my life worth living that is not why I suffer but I am not going to go into a life story since I don't need to be told how weak I am for my experiences.
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Now you said that you have lost things in your life that made your life worth living and have moved on in life anyway. But the fact is, you have found something else in your life that now makes your life worth living which is what enabled you to accept your loss and move on. As for me though, pleasure is the only thing that will always make my own personal life worth living and I will never find anything else in my life worth living that will enable me to accept and move on like you have. Quote:
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Actually, the only thing that is keeping me calm is the possibility of a full recovery in the future through therapy, medication, or just over time on its own. So unless it was proven to me that I will never get better or fully recover, I will not be driven to homicide. Also, go ahead and address all my other points I made in my previous post as well.
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You would essentially be driven to homicide on potentially superior people who experience joy so as to give you joy? There does seem to be a fair bit of contradiction in this.
I'd also say that the step towards full recovery is by addressing all issues with your care provider. If there is a potential for you to do harm to others (or yourself), then that could be the move required for hospitalization so that they can balance out your meds and keep you (and others) safe until such time as you've stabilised and have a better outlook.
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Now we are getting somewhere. What is your plan or what are you doing now to recover your ability to experience pleasure? Isn't that what is important for all of us? Shouldn't we focus on that and not some circular argument about being superior or inferior? We all have inherent value regardless of what state we are in. If 100% total recovery forever turns out not to be in the cards then you cross that bridge when you come to it. If a life of no recovery is not acceptable than don't accept it. What are you doing about it? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
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