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Dec 03, 2014, 12:08 AM
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Every time I see a girl I have a crush in on now I get depressed instantly. I get depressed when I think about girls. I have a crush on a girl in my class right now and I find her adorable but I can't talk to her because I hate myself and have no confidence. There's a longer back story to this but I am not going to post it here. If you want to hear more about why this is how it is send me a PM.
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Dec 03, 2014, 09:17 AM
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The "paradox" is only a conflict between reality and your feeling of what reality "ought to be." -- Richard Feynman Major Depressive Disorder Anxiety Disorder with some paranoid delusions thrown in for fun. Recovering Alcoholic and Addict Possibly on low end of bi polar spectrum...trying to decide. Male, 50 Fetzima 80mg Lamictal 100mg Remeron 30mg for sleep Klonopin .5mg twice a day, cutting this back |
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Dec 03, 2014, 11:02 AM
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Perhaps you are afraid that you will hit it off with this girl, she'll get to know you, then dump you.
Does this occur with all women? Or just the ones you find attractive? Can you talk to women that are attractive, yet unavailable (married, etc.)? I feel for you. |
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Dec 03, 2014, 01:20 PM
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I feel for you man. I was the same way for years, and still slightly am. You must work on your confidence and insecurities first. I suggest going and seeing a therapist and opening up about all the reasons you are the way you are so you can work on the underlying causes properly.
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Dec 03, 2014, 05:53 PM
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Dec 03, 2014, 05:54 PM
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Dec 04, 2014, 02:35 AM
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What if you were to say hello and she were to say hello back? Would that terrify you? What if you were to ask her to study together? And she said YES? Would that terrify you?
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Dec 04, 2014, 02:25 PM
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Dec 04, 2014, 03:52 PM
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Hmm.. This may sound harsh but it sounds like you don't know her well enough to have a "crush". Could this be an infatuation based on looks? Do you have any friends that are girls that you can practice conversing with?
No one is better than you. No one is above you or below you. And you are only not good enough when YOU decide you aren't good enough. Girls will overlook a lottttt when a man acts (or fakes) confidence. |
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Dec 04, 2014, 06:24 PM
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Dec 04, 2014, 06:49 PM
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I see your point. (: Do you ever see her standing around before class? I pm'd you.
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This is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.|
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