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Old Jan 01, 2015, 07:49 PM
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Do you feel like you're alone, but then someone speaks to you, yet you still feel alone but clearly you're not, but you keep on thinking like that because you think everyone will eventually leave, because you're not enough for them, and they don't care much either? The thought of "they don't care about me" i find it so self-centered, the truth is i don't really care about them, i really fear being alone but i want to be alone so i don't have to think about anything? But then i am alone and i find it absolutely terrifying. When the "they don't care about me" thought pops out in my mind i usually think "well, that's what i deserve for being so... Me" What can i do? It's really hurting my boyfriend, and i don't even know if it's that i don't love him, or that he'd be better without me, or that i'm so empty that it's pointless, i won't feel any better. I wish i could make someone happy, i wish i could stop just wandering around and watching how people's lives change when mine is stuck, and everything i do is pointless.

I apologize for the possible mistakes in this text, english is not my mother language.

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Old Jan 02, 2015, 06:15 AM
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Do you feel like you're alone, but then someone speaks to you, yet you still feel alone but clearly you're not, but you keep on thinking like that because you think everyone will eventually leave, because you're not enough for them, and they don't care much either? The thought of "they don't care about me" i find it so self-centered, the truth is i don't really care about them, i really fear being alone but i want to be alone so i don't have to think about anything? But then i am alone and i find it absolutely terrifying. When the "they don't care about me" thought pops out in my mind i usually think "well, that's what i deserve for being so... Me" What can i do? It's really hurting my boyfriend, and i don't even know if it's that i don't love him, or that he'd be better without me, or that i'm so empty that it's pointless, i won't feel any better. I wish i could make someone happy, i wish i could stop just wandering around and watching how people's lives change when mine is stuck, and everything i do is pointless.

I apologize for the possible mistakes in this text, english is not my mother language.

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perhaps you feel that way because people just don't understand you
like you could be in a room with 50 or so people and still feel alone because you can't relate to any of them and they can't relate to you

possibly

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Old Jan 02, 2015, 02:00 PM
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I can relate to being around others and feeling alone. I also feel like people don't care about me. I'm depressed and don't want to be around anyone. Then I feel lonely. When I'm around people I think they really don't want to be around me.

And yet I crave being close to someone.
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Old Jan 03, 2015, 05:13 AM
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hi.

how are you doing

feel any better this morning..
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Old Jan 03, 2015, 05:44 AM
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Viscious circle syndrome
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Old Jan 03, 2015, 08:37 AM
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hi.


how are you doing


feel any better this morning..

Hi, yeah, definitely i feel better than the previous days. How are you?

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Old Jan 03, 2015, 08:38 AM
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Viscious circle syndrome

I've never heard of that before, i'll check it

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Old Jan 03, 2015, 09:19 AM
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I can relate to this. I can feel alone in a room full of people. I also often feel like no one cares about me. Yet we all have that need to be loved by someone. Being a member of this community helps me because there are people I can talk to who care and are supportive. By the way, you are talented, to speak more than one language. Love and best wishes.
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Old Jan 03, 2015, 11:04 AM
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I can relate to this. I can feel alone in a room full of people. I also often feel like no one cares about me. Yet we all have that need to be loved by someone. Being a member of this community helps me because there are people I can talk to who care and are supportive. By the way, you are talented, to speak more than one language. Love and best wishes.

Thank you, i think being a member of this community makes all of us feel less alone, it's really nice knowing that you can talk to people going through the same situation you're living, and thank you about the language thing, i'm trying to improve Best wishes for you too

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