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Old Apr 07, 2007, 12:14 AM
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Hey everyone i haven't been on here in what feels like forever. I'm sorry for that. I guess i've been trying to pretend that i'm ok. When everything just feels so wrong. From gaining weight to cutting my hair really short. I hate my hair and i know it sounds stupid but i miss my long hair. I don't know why i cut it.

I don't want to be alone tonight. But thats all i ever feel is alone. You know its like you think u can just push everything aside and pretend that your fine. Until one day you do something stupid and are left to deal with it. then you realize how truely not better you are. Stupid really it just took me cutting my hair.

I'm sorry i just feel so all alone.
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Old Apr 07, 2007, 12:27 AM
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((((((((sammi)))))))))) we can be lonely together if you want.

Hello again Nice to see you again
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Old Apr 07, 2007, 12:28 AM
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Sammi,

Don't you just think that at certain points in life we are all left with the feeling that we are alone, because we are alone.

I'm sorry you went from long to short hair. If you had tried medium length first, you could have gotten back to a long look faster, but it will grow.

Keep posting. It's great getting other people's takes on our issues.

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Old Apr 07, 2007, 01:03 AM
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(((((((((((((((((((sammi))))))))))))))))))))) I am so sorry about how lonely you are feeling. Please take care of you and know we are here.
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Old Apr 07, 2007, 01:41 AM
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Hi Sammi. I recently cut my hair from past waist-length to shoulder-length and I went through a period of mourning... terribly regretting what I had done. My extremely long hair had been such a part of ME for so many years. I didn't feel like myself after I got it cut off. Sometimes it doesn't take much to set us off when we're prone to depression. I'm feeling much better now... and actually love my new haircut.

I hope you feel better soon. I'm one of those people who tends to need a lot of alone time, and I usually enjoy it. I get lonely sometimes too, though. It feels awful, so I can relate. ((((Sammi)))) I hope you feel better soon. Just remember that nothing is permanent. You won't always feel this way.
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Old Apr 08, 2007, 03:54 PM
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((((((((( sammi )))))))))

I'm sorry you feel so alone hon! Cutting your hair short can symbolise depression..... sometimes I want to cut mine really short but I know I'd regret it!!! I hope you feel the care and warmth I and others are sending you here Hello again
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Old Apr 08, 2007, 07:38 PM
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Sammi,
I just cut off my hair too............and I don't like not having hair either..........but I keep telling myself it will be back soon. Depression sux, but as far as the lonely feelings go, just get out of the house. I am sure you have a buddy or 2, go to a bar or something.
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