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#1
Apr 01, 2015, 01:37 AM
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I find that whenever people are kind to me or compliment me a lot, I end up getting more anxiety and it triggers me into getting more attacks... I don't know if this is just my internalized lack of self-worth talking, but does anyone else have this problem?
Whenever people are really nice to me I just feel like they're faking it and I get really paranoid and depressed over my worry about how 'much' i actually matter and mean to others  So, anyone else have anything similar? |
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#2
Apr 01, 2015, 09:58 AM
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I really hate compliments as well, and when people try to tell me great things about myself, I see it as just lies. I have gotten myself to believe that everyone has their opinions and if someone thinks I'm pretty then I don't have to believe them.
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#3
Apr 01, 2015, 11:24 AM
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I get triggered too. People telling me i'm doing great sometimes makes me want to do worse. I have no idea why...
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Apr 01, 2015, 02:45 PM
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Sometimes I wonder if people (IRL) mean the nice things they say
 
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Apr 02, 2015, 08:11 AM
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My own self loathing makes any compliment sound at best like sarcasm.
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Apr 02, 2015, 08:25 AM
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I'm always paranoid about what people think or say about me. I don't know why bc it shouldn't matter.
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Apr 02, 2015, 08:43 AM
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I have noticed, too late, that I have left each job once I have had a significant success/promotion. Or, even, a stretch of successes...
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Apr 02, 2015, 09:06 AM
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Mostly i either dont believe them or im telling myself its not true
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Apr 02, 2015, 12:15 PM
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i get that. it's like a sign of feeling better or progress just makes me want to go two steps back into my shell.
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Apr 02, 2015, 05:57 PM
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Over time I've learned to just accept and case by case make a determination on sincerity. Too many compliments at once set off my desire to not trust.
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Apr 02, 2015, 06:05 PM
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I tend to have a kitchy sense of style, I know for a fact that people are insulting me most of the time when they are giving me "compliments".
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