for the last couple of days i have felt the best have felt for months. maybe because i know i am seeing a pdoc quite soon and it's taen some stress out of my life and frustration. i even went and bought some new clothes witha friend today, went out last night and had a lovely time. my daughter is in a foul mood, today, my hubby is upstairsona football game and when i asked if i looked ok in my new clothes he just said yes without even looking up.
i give up. there's always something to bring you back down again. i feel really crappy and ignored now. i know i cant expect everyone to be in a good mood when i am, but i thought at least my hubby could have made a bit more effort.

life........

is it me? am i wrong in what i've just said? i thought they may be happy i am getting back to my old self slowly.

wtf

jinny

You know Jinnyann I think it is the male of the species. Don't bother with him. If you like the way you look in your new clothes that's all the really matters.
Even though both my pdoc and therapist have talked with my husband about my depression, he is totally clueless. He doesn't have any idea how even the least little bit of recognition or praise would help.
We don't need a marble pedestal (although that would be nice ) just some acknowledgement that we do exist.

(((((Jinnyann)))))

thanks keb(((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))i just give up to be honest. when i am better if things dont change i will move on. i am not living like a nun for the rest of my bloody life

jinny xoxoxoxoxxo

I wish you be very best Jinnyann and remember thery are always people here for you.

[heyjoe]

Keb, so much men bashing. do you really think that some women are a bargain to deal with. I guess its ok to put down men on this site, it seems to be acceptable anyway. I see it quite often. There is definitely a double standard here.

Not all men just like not all woman fit the mould. It wasn't meant to be "men bashing". Some men are great but in Jinnyann's case I'm not so sure. My heart goes out to her.

[gordon80]

some men aren't just men ...they're a person just like you

[SecretGarden]

Well some men can be crap heads as can some women. It is an equal opportunity life time thing. No need to pirate the thread...

I do not think that your husband ignoring you was too swift but I do hear it from other women....

Jinnyann... Just know that while you are working on your depression you need to focus on taking care of you... You are the one that you need to concentrate on for getting better and knowing what is good for you. I am glad that you bought the clothes and bet you look good.

You have had to wait for some time to see someone... I am glad that you are going to be able to see a T soon.

Hurray for you.

(((((((((((((secret garden))))))))))))))

thankyou. i am sorry this thread ended up with joey thinking it was men bashing. there are good and bad women and men of course, i was just a little disappointed at the lack of interest my husband showed.
and we know men have feelings too. some more than others. unfortunately i seem to chose the ones who cant show them very well for some reason - then again i always thought i was not worthy of feelings or love. i had difficult relationshipws before i married tony apart from one who was the love of my life, my first love in the end that went bad too. so i should be grateful i have a husband who puts up with me.he is a good man, just not affectionate or very observant.

jin xoxoxoxo

[Direction]

I'm a man - and I don't think your first post was about men bashing.

I do think as you probably know that I people are pretty much oblivious to how their words and actions effect others around them.

As proved by your post...

[mlpHolmes]

Hi Jinnyann!
I wanted to let you know that I was thinking of you & I wish for you the very best of all dreams. (((((((((((((JINNYANN)))))))))))))))

You are Wonderful.

awwwwww mwaaaaah big kiss thankyou so much. you gave me a lift.

you are a good friend, always there with kind words


love you, jinny xoxoxoxoxoxox