Am I that bad to others

Well according to my ex, I'm not a good friend. Since the storm my close friends are all spread so far apart and we rarely see each other. It's very depressing, cause we were always together before. This weekend two of them and their kids are coming to spend the weekend at another friends house and we are all expected to be there and party our asses off. Im still suffering with a sore back, swollen knees from sunburn that is painful to walk and trying my hardest to quit drinking. Becuase i wont give him an answer on whether or not im goin yet, he's getting this attitude with me and saying i'm awful not to go and spend the night. I told him that i wont know if im going till i get up tomorrow and start moving around, see how i feel. It really hurts me cause i want to see them very badly. The friends coming from far away are two of my closests friends and one has recently been diagnoxed with 4th stage lymphona. I want badly to see them. I told my ex that if I go it will be for a little while but not to spend the night. He says back to me, im being selfish. Said i should just enjoy myself and have fun, drink or not, who cares. Well, it seems to me he sure the hell dont care. Cause he keeps making me feel quilty for what i feel and say. If i do go he also expects me to drive 30 miles out of my way to go get him and then bring him back home. I just told him, he needs to find another way there. And again I'm being the bad person in that situation. I dont know what to do anymore. I just want to feel better, live happy and enjoy life. I mean, come on, is that to much to ask for?

well, chalmette, he needs a ride!!!! he isn't concerned about your soreness and is guilting you about it???????????

BS..........take care of yourself. you're a good woman and you don't need any added aggravation........love you, pat

You are so freaking impressive lately. Good for you. I know its difficult but you are 10000% right. Stay strong. he is the elfish one, not you...Maybe you not drinkingis mnaking him taking a look at himself...and he's notlikeing whathe sees...if he brings you downit would make him feel better about himself. Just a theory...

Stay strong.

(((((((((chalm)))))))))))

You have absolutely nothing to feel guilty about hon. And since he is your ex...tell him to call a cab! You owe him nothing. You owe yourself everything! Take care of YOU woman!!



Hugsssss
J

you've been darned good to me since you came here and always been here for me as a friend........woman, you deserve good treatment. want me to come to NO and kick ***?

((((((((((((((((((chalm)))))))))))))))))

You are such a good friend to me.......to snow, to tymber, to airway, to K, to all of us. You hang tight girl. I never seen you be anything but supportive....

chal, you've been through enough. glad you said he'd have to get a ride from some other way. proud of you sticking to your guns, dont go feeling guilty - look after you

love you, kerry xoxoxoxo

((((((((chalm)))))))))
muffy is right....
snow

Chalmette,

Hi....I totally agree with Pat...take care of you. You don't need the guilt...you are a good person...tell him not to let the door hit him in the rump on the way out.

Mojo3