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Old May 11, 2016, 03:01 AM
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No accepts me as I am they just want to change me I had enough. Leave me alone. I don't want to have friends or family I am just want to be loved and if I can rid of all the **** that doesn't accept me I will finally be happy.
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Old May 11, 2016, 04:28 AM
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i think half the battle is that so many people are ignorant of mental health and don't want to understand, they sort of make up excuses and try to turn it back on to you

like.. oh, stop pretending you hear voices, stop harming yourself, you're not depressed- so stop faking it, that kind of thing

my family were great at that
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Old May 11, 2016, 04:44 AM
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Your lazy because your adhd and your a ****tard and your behaviour is why you have problems. Yes, maybe that is it maybe it not that they don't accept me they just don't understand how I am and why I am like this. Even though they live with me. I had a friend tell me that he thinks I am looking for sympathy like I would actually give a **** if he or anyone cared about my suffering. Heck I don't even care about my suffering so why would others.
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Old May 11, 2016, 04:55 AM
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Your lazy because your adhd and your a ****tard and your behaviour is why you have problems. Yes, maybe that is it maybe it not that they don't accept me they just don't understand how I am and why I am like this. Even though they live with me. I had a friend tell me that he thinks I am looking for sympathy like I would actually give a **** if he or anyone cared about my suffering. Heck I don't even care about my suffering so why would others.
You are looking for EMPATHY not sympathy. You are looking for understanding not pity. As far as I'm concerned people like those who have criticized you can take a flying leap!
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Old May 11, 2016, 07:25 AM
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Yes empathy and understanding I guess people who have never experienced mental illness might not understand the difference. It is very hard to get empathy and understanding from mental illness because people already believe that is emotional and it has no value to anything.
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Old May 11, 2016, 07:27 AM
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Yes empathy and understanding I guess people who have never experienced mental illness might not understand the difference. It is very hard to get empathy and understanding from mental illness because people already believe that is emotional and it has no value to anything.
you are right....you cant understand until you have been there...please be kind to yourself now
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Old May 11, 2016, 03:48 PM
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We love you just the way you are, black-roses.

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Old May 11, 2016, 10:07 PM
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I absolutely love that animation it makes me warm inside. Yes, empathy is what I wanted but why is it some hard for people to be show it towards me. Why in society being vulnerable means you're doing it for attention?
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Old May 11, 2016, 10:13 PM
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Because most people in society are not self aware and they don't attribute behaviors to mental illnesses. They just assume someone is a *****.

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Old May 11, 2016, 11:13 PM
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That is very true or they believe a mental illness is an excuse to get away from a wrongdoing. sigh*
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Old May 12, 2016, 05:54 AM
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black roses--i don't accept me as i am...i don't seem to be able to do it...some of my friends do accept me....but i cant do it
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Old May 12, 2016, 04:12 PM
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I absolutely love that animation it makes me warm inside. Yes, empathy is what I wanted but why is it some hard for people to be show it towards me. Why in society being vulnerable means you're doing it for attention?
This is the whole talk where the cartoon was drown from

Maybe it has some responses to your questions
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