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Aug 14, 2016, 08:38 PM
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I'm having the worst birthday I've ever had. I'm feeling so down and depressed. Woke up and my toddler is sick all of a sudden and so am I. Husband got me nothing as usual. We had a spa day planned for tomorrow which is definitely a gift and a treat so that IS something at least, but I cancelled since I am sick. This made my husband mad and he slammed the door and is irritated with me for being upset. He's asleep now since he worked all night and I'm trying to care for my daughter. This is also the first week of our "vacation" since he's taking off work and I am so sad we are sick and just so disappointed and this is making my husband mad that I'm upset. I feel like nothing ever works out.
. I'm so depressed. I don't even blame him for being irritated I feel like I'm not deserving of anything anyway. I've had so many bad things happen in my life and I don't have much social support. I've just been so caught up trying to function with chronic illness that I haven't kept up with a lot of friends and its sad on my birthday when I feel really alone.. People can't even just type happy birthday to me. I just don't feel deserving and it sucks. Pretty much been crying all day and feeling like I'm so undeserving of anything which is why my birthday is like this and I'm chronically ill and a huge burden. |
 ABeautifulLie, Anonymous37926, Anonymous37954, Anonymous41141, Cinnamon_Stick, Clara22, Yours_Truly
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#2
Aug 14, 2016, 08:58 PM
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You deserve to be told "Happy birthday"!!!!
I hope tomorrow you feel better Sending you a big hug
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#3
Aug 14, 2016, 11:18 PM
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Ouch!
I agree with Clara. You deserve a happy birthday. I'm sorry your husband is being a **** (sorry). He has no reason to be mad when you simply don't feel well AND have to care for a toddler, too. It should be your day off from everything.... |
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#4
Aug 15, 2016, 08:30 AM
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So sorry to hear that you and your toddler are not feeling well. I do hope you two feel better soon. And while he may be disappointed there's no reason for your husband to treat you like that. You and your toddler can't help getting sick. Happy belated birthday, btw.
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#5
Aug 15, 2016, 11:29 AM
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Happy Birthday and hugs your way
Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G930A using Tapatalk
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#6
Aug 15, 2016, 11:37 AM
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Happy Belated Birthday!
  Hope you're feeling better today. 
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Aug 15, 2016, 12:03 PM
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Happy Birthday!! I can relate to your husband being a jerk. He is just like me ex. Hopefully he will wake up with more care and concern. You do deserve a great birthday !!!
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