[cleomaru]

how does a 23 yr old college student get a father, i need sone, i need ot be hed and hugged and told i love yo uand i need it to be real i need to be protected and safe and important and loved.......


but no one wants the job

"don't kick the puppy" ~ j.e.p.

[Taonuviel]

I guess... my recommendation would be the Church. Unfortunately it's harder to find than it should be, however that's a large part of what the Church is supposed to do... I don't know of any other place. Except maybe through transference with a T? But I don't know much about that. But while I was away from home a year there were a couple Christian men who were like fathers to me... it was really helpful to have them there for me with all the junk I was facing. I hope you find someone/someone finds you like that soon.

[cleomaru]

last time i tried that, wel lthe last time, ........ the guy left suddenly for home, like three states away....... time before that, i was assaulted by one of the church deacons.

"don't kick the puppy" ~ j.e.p.

[nicademas74]

Hello I can definitely relate to your needing a father. Where is yours? Mine killed himself when i was three. One needs a father i think to set guidelines, make rules, and besides thats half of you. Part of your own identity lies there. Anyway i feel for you and at the same time know how it feels. You're not alone, one breath at a time and remember if there were never any cloudy, rainy days nothing would ever grow.