[TishaBuv]

I'm going over everything in my mind, looking back, feeling like I have come through the grieving process from the failure of the relationship. It wasn't a case of biological depression. It was sadness, despair, disappointment. It was my inability to get my needs met. It was his inability to be someone he wasn't. It was just a stalemate.

I'm stuck in a kind of purgatory now, can't go back, can't move on. I'm so down, I don't care if I go out.

It meant the world to me to have succeeded at this relationship, and I couldn't, he couldn't. There was no Prince Charming.

I don't know how I am going to move on. I want to go forward to a new phase in my life, as this hasn't actually killed me. I just haven't figured out how yet. I'm working on it.

Hope.

Dear TishaBuv,
Sometimes the disappointments hurt so much! I also have some disappointments in my life that I wonder if I will ever get over.
But, as long as we are alive, maybe some more good things can eventually happen. In the meantime, like you've said in other posts; we have to find little things to smile about. And I know you've said that you have found a new therapist. Maybe that will help. In the meantime, I hope you find some small things to smile about today. And try to think about some of the "wins" you may have had over the course of your life as well. I'm not saying it's easy.
Sincerely, Myst

[jerin0121]

Yah, Sometimes I also feel sadness and disappointments in my life.I want get rid of this disappointments.Its really difficult and i am trying.

[Hopeofreedom]

I'm so sorry to hear your going thru this! 😯. Maybe he just wasn't the one for you! 💚

Maybe he wasn't the one for you! ..... any guy would be happy to have a girlfriend as devoted as YOU!!💖