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Former "spiritual mother" said how I was "pissing away" my life..
So I guess, like the ... Teachers at school.., she judged me as having "potential" Potential for what? And who cares? We were born alone... And one day... ![]()
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When I was in either junior high or perhaps the first year or two of high school (memory fails me)
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![]() I didn't have a "guidance counsellor" - I went to an oh so proper all girls school...nobody was allowed to have any "issues" Somehow, in all my "stupidity" I managed to be in the "top stream" - I had to be or it would have been beaten out of me.. But somehow also I learnt almost nothing ![]() ![]()
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((((((( Skeezyks ))))))) I suspect true insight is in much shorter supply than the number of "insightful ones". ![]()
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My fifth grade teacher said I wasn't going to graduate high school and was probably going to end up a criminal when I grew up. She was a ***** who didn't deserve the right to teach.
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I guess I let a lot of people down with my life choices. But in the end it doesn't really matter.
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I'm sorry you've all had to deal with such mean people
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I think partly what she meant was I was helping the "wrong" people (in her perception) - partly that anyway
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We don't need to live up to others expectations. We don't live in their perceived view of the world. That is a lesson I keep trying to learn.
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some of the nastiest people have been in my church... |
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Yeah, that 5th grade teacher was hardcore Catholic. I don't hold it against the entire religion, though.
I'm not religious myself, but I've never seen a problem with it. I only see a problem with personalities of people who to choose judge and condemn more than open their minds. Who are we to judge when we ourselves are imperfect? |
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Who are we to judge when we ourselves are imperfect
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no perfect people allowed here...how about that....just humans who care about others
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And yeah, I think a large part of our "judgment" of our abusers is just trying to understand how they could hurt us like they did. What brought my dad to say what he's said to me? What prompted my mom to hit me all of the time for a good portion of childhood? I'd call that sort of thing more like analysis for me, because I'm genuinely trying to understand why. |
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I had a counselor in HS who essentially said the same thing to me. He got all pissed off when my parents refused to let him hold me back a year and that's when he said I would never amount to anything and wouldn't get anywhere with my life.
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