[Fuzzybear]

I used to feel this myself... "Worthless"

But nobody, nobody is worthless.

It's a toxic lie every human needs to fight with every ounce of their strength.

I do not understand those abusers who are interested in power, control and making (forcing?) others who are younger or in some way possibly more helpless...feel worthless, less than... Any of those other words abusers are so "skilled" at using

(This is not about anyone on pc)

[little turtle]

fuzzy I don't understand either....but we have to fight these abusers...together....
we have to be smarter....most of all we cant afford to take ourselves down....I have beaten myself up for breaking down big time when in practice.....I couldn't do practice anymore......people felt I was choosing to leave....they were judging me....but I was my worst judge....I continue to beat myself up...

maybe those abusers believe it is better to eat than be eaten...

[Fuzzybear]

Originally Posted by little turtle

fuzzy I don't understand either....but we have to fight these abusers...together....
we have to be smarter....most of all we cant afford to take ourselves down....I have beaten myself up for breaking down big time when in practice.....I couldn't do practice anymore......people felt I was choosing to leave....they were judging me....but I was my worst judge....I continue to beat myself up...

maybe those abusers believe it is better to eat than be eaten...

Yes yes

[MtnTime2896]

It's like being sick with no cure, only treatment in hopes of remission. Because the truth is, we can always relapse back into our toxicity. So we must fight on, and fight to distinguish ourselves from our abusers.
It's a lot easier said than done and I'm still trying to figure it out. I just have to work at it and hope I get there.