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Old Apr 13, 2017, 02:12 PM
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I was reminded again today that not many people in the world out there want to connect with me. Or if they do, it's on a superficial level and strictly on their terms.

I try to be kind, polite, respectful.. I try not to appear "clingy" and I succeed for the most part (there are few I trust enough for them to know me at all, even if they think they do

I was reminded again how alone I was when growing up.

My heart still aches. My pain is real and even when I seem to be ok / "normal" I'm bleeding inside.

I don't think they care.. maybe they can't care about anyone who isn't them.. or who isn't similar to them..
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Old Apr 13, 2017, 02:18 PM
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I too have difficulty connecting. Perhaps it is my shame.
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Old Apr 13, 2017, 02:33 PM
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I'm sorry about the shame
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Old Apr 13, 2017, 03:52 PM
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I - and many others - cannot view you as "worthless". The unhappy intersection of the past and present, however, could arouse that feeling in you.

No one can blame you for trusting few. The Parental Units...

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Old Apr 13, 2017, 04:54 PM
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Old Apr 13, 2017, 05:47 PM
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Sincerely, I do not think it is about you. I think nowadays connections(real ones, in the way we knew them) are left aside.
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