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Old May 31, 2017, 02:27 PM
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I was informed by an (all knowing) "professional" irl.. that after their sub optimal "help" that I had "failed" to "change significantly"

I was always told how "bad" I was

And I suppose I must thank this "professional" for "confirming" this "reality"

There is one way I could be sure I "changed significantly" - we are not allowed to post about that here..

(Not about anyone on pc)
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Old May 31, 2017, 03:35 PM
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I'm sorry Fuzzy. I don't know what's wrong with those people you are dealing with.
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Old May 31, 2017, 08:00 PM
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God save us from "professionals"...
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Old Jun 01, 2017, 12:10 PM
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Hi Fuzzy

I suppose that was the professionals way of saying "I (the professional), haven't been that helpful, I (the professional) should have been able to help more".
And apart from having a major problem with saying you've "failed", where do they get off saying that you need to change??!!! You don't need to change Fuzzy, you are a good person
What you needed was support in finding ways to cope with/get through the tough times you were going through, right?? Not to change who you were/are inside!!!
So let us, who hear you, confirm the actual reality, that........yes, you are a good person, we value you for who you are, and we're here for you regardless

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Old Jun 01, 2017, 01:25 PM
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I think they are the ones that have failed and not you
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I think they are the ones that have failed and not you


You haven't failed at all fuzzy
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You haven't failed at all fuzzy
I agree!

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