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Just so you know. I have not been offended by anything anyone has said - however, I do know that people can tend to stop listening to the speaker when it comes to abuse. They hear "abuse" and go on auto pilot thinking there is one solution to fit all cases - and it just doesn't work that way. I wish I could say it did bc I have times I want to magically remove victims from their situations too.

I truly value both your friendship n your advice - and when I say "that's a loaded question" - it just means ... there's a lot of different ways I could respond or a lot of information to give you in response ...

Nothing at all against you

I apologize if I hurt you CepheidVariable

Nope, no hurt, and no need to apologize. If anything, I wanted to make sure you were okay with everything. You know me -- always overthinking things.

Actually, I was the one who said "loaded question". So you *really* don't need to worry about it. But I'll take your quote here under advisement.

Ok thanks

Wish I could help. Looking for answers myself. Good luck.

I am so sorry you are going through this. I hope you can get this resolved in a satisfactory manner that offers you peace and healing. You deserve it. Please keep posting so we can support you.