[recluse1]

i would never intentionally hurt anyone. i always try my very best to be kind and compassionate to everyone i come in contact with. so i can't understand why someone would intentionally try to antagonize me and upset me when they know i am already upset. it is a sad day when you can't go into a chat room just looking for a friend, somebody, anyone to just talk to without some punk trying to show himself.

i do not understand people like this. i just don't understand.
why do they want to be so hurtful? what is the point?
recluse1

[kebsfroggy]

So sorry you have been hurt. I don't know why some people are like that. Makes no sense to me either.

I do know of others that have complained of that problem also. IMO it is just the general nature of chat rooms. There is often someone showing their butt crack.

Frogs of little brain don't go to chat very often. We can't type and read at the same time.

[recluse1]

(((((((((((kebs)))))))))) thanks for your response and the laugh. i needed it.

recluse1

oh recluse, put them on ignore..........

metime

[dragonphoto]

(((((((Recluse, Kebs and Me)))))))) I will be nice to all of you because you have all been nice to me. There there Recluse, yeah why do people have to be so mean? You are here for support not for someone to bring you down and you would think they are here for the same reason.

Dragon

[sassypants]

I don't understand it either. Especially since we are all looking for support.
I am sorry this has happened to a nice, sweet person like
you, or to anyone else.I guess they were never taught to treat people with respect.
Please take care.

[wickedwings]

((((recluse))))) don't forget the ignore feature. you're a good person. be nice if we could do a "whacking" at them by "whacking" their computers. lol. if only we knew how to do that. hehe.

recluse1... I see your warm heart glowing through your always so caring words.
I want you to know how much your replies to my posts mean to me. To be in the darkest hour and feel a gentle "cyber hand" on one's shoulder... sooths a tired soul.
Thank you, for being you!

(recluse)))))))))))
chat can be hard. Sorry you were hurt, That is why i am not in there as much. If you need to talk pm me and i will chat any time.
muffy

[AAAAA]

recluse,

You are truly a sweet and compassionate person. I know the thing you are talking about and the only thing I can say, and it is NOT an excuse, because there is none, just an explaination.

The jerk to whom you refer is a child. A 13 year old child that has no concept yet of how much his insensitivity can affect other people. He has not learned to communicate in a positive way, or even to just say I need help. To him negative attention is attention just the same.

I understand your anger, hurt, and frustration. You deserve to be able to come in and get the support you need, just as you give others the support they need.

The boy does need to follow the rules. He did not and he was wrong. He also needs to learn that when he says something it has consequences, this is life, not a game. I am truly sorry that you happened to be the target of his need for attention. I am also very sad that there is a 13 year old boy that has not learned to communicate or the concepts of civility, compassion, or respect for others in the room.

In any event, I am really really sorry that you had to go through this, especially at a time when you were trying to relieve stress and what you got in return is more stress.

[Fuzzybear]

(((((((((((( recluse ))))))))))))
You're always so gentle and kind, I'm sorry this has happened,
take gentle care of you

[recluse1]

(((((((((my friends))))))))))) i thank you all for your comforting words of support. i have had so much going on inside and out and my system is just overloaded. thank you for the hugs and kind thoughts. you are all very special people and i am so thankful for each of you.

((((AAAAA)))) thank you for the explanation. i assumed he was young and just showing his behind. i was just too upset to deal with the situation. maybe even a little overly sensitive. but i want you to know i was going reporting him to mods and having him kicked out. but after i prayed about it and read some scripture i changed my mind. i came to the conclusion that he is here because he too has problems and is in need of help. and if this is the only place he can find it, i wont deny him that. i saw in chat that he was talking to you about a few things and he was troubled. so instead, i prayed for him.

an explanation for him: i still have that chat saved and if it ever happens again with me or anyone else, i will report him. he will be gone. let him know that.

[AAAAA]

(((((recluse1))))) You really are such a dear. I agree that this is a place that he can get the help he needs if he's willing to take it. Even though he is young he does need to learn that there are rules one must follow in life. His age and lack of knowledge does call for a bit of tolerance, but he has to learn just because he's having a bad day it does not mean he can take it out on those around him.

I think a warning from the mods is not uncalled for, perhaps they can explain in a way that we cannot that this is a place for EVERYONE to get support. If you are inclined to report the incident I support you 100%. I fear that if he gets away with this behavior then it will only get worse and no one would benefit from that. I have a weakness... no a soft spot in my heart particularly for troubled children, but even troubled children need discipline.

Even though it is not my place to do so, I thank you wholeheartedly for your prayers on his behalf. This really does show what a truly wonderful person you are!