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Apr 25, 2018, 09:24 AM
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TRIGGER WARNING - this means I’m in pain and need kind, thoughtful, support.
............. ............. ............ Today I’m a mess. Apparently.... I always was  The young Fuzzybear, a beautiful bear. But misunderstood and even hated by ignorant, “weak” people The young Fuzzybear, having put up with, “coped” with very severe anxiety and panic attacks, abuse from “family” etc...for years....... visited “her GP” to discuss her anxiety. The GP wrote.. “This woman is ......  “Quite frankly... “And now has” ... The poor “doctor” was “mad” and “weak” .. he got it all twisted up and Wrong because of his lack of humanity, intelligence and compassion. OMG there “should” be a special place in Hell for cruel, “weak” people like that poor excuse for a human being. His attitude was hateful. And hate was what I was given by the FOO (family of origin)   .gif "Sad Girl")
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Apr 25, 2018, 09:46 AM
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why did I post that? / “How dare I...” ..... “Horrible, “broken” paws” (“beyond help” - a therapist (in real life) actually did say that about some people. Nice. Fortunately, I never trusted him. He also informed me that I had a “terrible life” Wtf And for an undisclosed reason I wasn’t to consult any other therapists at that place. I never even “acted out” and I didn’t even have “harmful “coping” whatever. Ugh... 
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| CepheidVariable, malika138, marvin_pa, mote.of.soul, Rohag, Wild Coyote
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#3
Apr 25, 2018, 10:11 AM
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I am sorry for everything you have been through. You are the strongest, most amazing bear I know. Big hugs my friend. Keep sharing.
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| Fuzzybear, Wild Coyote
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| Fuzzybear, malika138, mote.of.soul, Wild Coyote
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#4
Apr 25, 2018, 10:32 AM
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Beyond help = the 'helper' has insufficient knowledge/skills/empathy/compassion to adequately provide assistance.
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| Fuzzybear, Wild Coyote
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| Fuzzybear, mote.of.soul, Wild Coyote
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#5
Apr 25, 2018, 10:35 AM
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(understatement)
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#6
Apr 25, 2018, 10:36 AM
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#7
Apr 25, 2018, 10:58 AM
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I'm sorry you're upset. But I also would kindly encourage different thought patterns in what your idea of help is...if that makes any sense..
I don't think we have spoken before but seeing you around (insert state if mind) lifts my spirits. If a bear can lose it, so can I. |
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| Fuzzybear, Wild Coyote
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Apr 25, 2018, 11:03 AM
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| mote.of.soul, Wild Coyote
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#9
Apr 25, 2018, 11:36 AM
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I do understand and asking for help should be treated with a high level of urgency, priority and Hopefully with trained professionals that have an added quality..comparison.
I get pissed at my doctors...when they stick to the book. Making all my efforts to get more pills while maintaining a poker face and endless hours of thought on how to be more cunning...becomes pointless A waist of time focusing on the people you can't get any kind of validation from. I, I, I..I share my thoughts honestly and sometimes we all need a wake up, nudge, or just someone who can guide us to the "right" path.   PS: doesn't calling someone weak only make them stronger |
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Apr 25, 2018, 12:58 PM
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Sadly, those are exactly the skills that the illness tends to mess with - which doesn't help a lot, when you're trying to deal with a complicated, expensive/under-funded & overloaded health/welfare system, that seemingly would much prefer to deal with matters that produce better looking statistics in the monthly reports... *Yes, I am feeling more than usually cynical today. My apologies & thanks go to those carers, who actually do care* |
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Apr 25, 2018, 01:07 PM
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Agreed... thanks for posting
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Apr 25, 2018, 01:24 PM
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May we each fully claim the courage to live from our hearts, to allow Love, Faith and Hope to enLighten our paths. 
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Apr 25, 2018, 01:31 PM
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Apr 25, 2018, 01:48 PM
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I wonder if there are any therapists out there - anywhere - who specialise in helping people overcome therapy?
"PTSD" = "Post-Therapy Stress Disorder"??? 
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My dog mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it.
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Apr 25, 2018, 02:23 PM
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Sorry you had to deal with this person. It is awful. I don't know how they can kick us when we're down like that
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Apr 25, 2018, 02:33 PM
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Apr 25, 2018, 02:36 PM
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I haven’t heard of them .. maybe there are?
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