What is the Point

Trigger warning. Rant. I’m in pain (mentally and some physically too)

...................

Almost everywhere I go, people are talking about their dogs and cats. I like dogs and cats. I’m allergic to them

People say “I wouldn’t be alive if it wasn’t for my cat, and my meds ...”

I’m allergic to meds

People say inane things like “you are responsible for your own happiness”

If only it was so easy.

I do not like this harsh cruel world

On another board I was told “different things work for different people” - re skin allergies.

I know this.

It’s quite scary sometimes how so many people give unsolicted advice.

And I’ve found doctors in this forest irl to be the worst “offenders”

“Bad” paws

“Unpopular” paws

“Mad and sad” paws

I know I “should” always keep my pain to myself. I don’t have time to go back and delete this post.
“Useless” paws

I don't think you deserve to hold all of this pain to yourself, Fuzzy. I'm glad I read it, it helps me to understand my friend in the forest better.

((((Fuzzybear))))

((((( So leigheas )))))

Thank you, my friend

Fuzzy... you or I cannot change the world beyond our capabilities. Yes, some people find solace in their dogs or cats. I too wanted a pet as a child but my psychotic parents wouldn't let me. Now I have grown up the situation is even worse, I AM the pet. The caged animal. Now, just because you do not like other's pets or as you say are allergic to them, I suggest you to not ruin other's mods as they too might get triggered and lose interest in life.

I am not saying you are responsible for your own happiness. I am not smart enough to verify the saying. But what I am trying to say is let the people have their own happiness. I like being around doctors, I don't want to leave the clinic. Not all doctors are bad. Most of the mentally ill do not trust doctor, this creates a chain of distrust and doctors become cynical of patients as well. This is bad for our society (not just American society, our society as a whole) The best thing would be for you is to change yourself, not the world.

I was born as a gift. So much I perform average in my class even though I have like 100 lesions in my nervous system as a whole. I didn't quite retain my gift, but I am going to try to regain it anyway. I could never be a doctor, so I am going to be a medical scientist. I'll first need to change myself before trying to change the world.

I do not mean to hurt your feelings or make you feel worse, but it's just the truth. Just because the doctors you met are cynical about you doesn't mean doctors are bad. Get out of the delusion. They're here to help, they have taken the oath of Hippocratus. They will do not harm. If they do, it's upto their own honor and the jury about what happens to their license.

No deletings! >:o

Stay strong Fuzzy. This world is harsh and cruel but you can do it, you're a bear for gosh sake!

Tbh I didn’t read the long post. I sensed a “lecture” - well intended probably but I’ve pretty much heard it all already I think. (From various sources. I’m not 15 years old any more )

I hope you don’t take this as an attack TLC - it’s my stuff. I’ll read it tomorrow. I’m digging out from a bunch of other peoples crap today (nobody here)

The PUS did nothing but lecture me. No love, no understanding. Grrrrrrrrr

Yes I’m a survivor. Even survivors get tired of all the crap..

Not sure why ......

Hugs to all who get it, even somewhat <3

What becomes of a bear with a sore mouth who can hardly eat... -

Hmm.. I understand.

like I said, it’s nothing personal. I don’t play games and I don’t “read people’s minds” - I’ve just got too many “time limits” today

I literally do have a sore mouth

And a sore butt

Ggggrrrrrreat

I’ve read it now

The wire monkey experiment

Hmmmmm... “ruin others moods” - interesting.

So sorry if I’ve ever done this,

I support all with dogs and cats

Maybe this is the “wrong” forum

And almost certainly the “wrong” title

Hello little turtle..

maybe I’m “insane” - rock on ...

Love to all sentient beings

Many hugs Fuzzy.

Fuzzy I can't pretend I understand all you said. I can feel the hurt in you . I'm sorry you hurt. It's times like this when I really DO wish I was a unicorn.

We love our Fuzzy

Hugs to all

Love is patient

Love is kind

I get the feeling that it isn’t particularly helpful to “advise” someone to stop sharing how they are feeling. To imply that that person “brings others down” especially if that person is very supportive of others

And that it’s not helpful to tell someone that their experience is somehow “wrong”

If I’ve ever done this to anyone I most humbly apologise. I don’t think I ever have on pc as this is mostly a safe place. Being told we are “wrong” does not make a safe place. IMHO.

But I do think that everyone does “fail” sometimes, including me, as we’re all human / bear

I really wish I was a bear in the forest.

Btw I don’t think you’ve ever posted giving “advice” that isn’t well thought out and helpful

Tbh the sort of “advice” I don’t welcome, which you don’t ever give, is the sort of “advice” which, to me, completely invalidates my experience.

This happened on another forum recently, and it does occasionally happen in most places online I think

I hope this isn’t confusing. I don’t want to hurt anyone or bite them - why would I