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Old Aug 22, 2018, 03:34 PM
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Why do the “professionals” say there is “no point”

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because they treat people like they don't deserve help when (apart from me) people with mental health issues deserve the help Fuzzy

(sorry for short posts, my brain's turning everything to word salad tonight)
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Old Aug 22, 2018, 04:32 PM
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because they treat people like they don't deserve help when (apart from me) people with mental health issues deserve the help Fuzzy

(sorry for short posts, my brain's turning everything to word salad tonight)
How come everyone but you deserves help?
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Maybe we’ve consulted some of the same “professionals” and had particularly pernicious abusers in our lives who want us to still feel this deep in our souls.. even after at least some of them aren’t screaming those lies at us constantly?
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Old Aug 22, 2018, 10:27 PM
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Why is it that the abusers so often seem to be proved “right” with their cruel words. “Too sensitive”- what does it even mean? I suppose it means “weak” to the abusers and “failure” and all that other garbage. So BORING

I’m not “weak” .. But I’m howling to a dying moon

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Old Aug 23, 2018, 02:59 AM
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How come everyone but you deserves help?
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Maybe we’ve consulted some of the same “professionals” and had particularly pernicious abusers in our lives who want us to still feel this deep in our souls.. even after at least some of them aren’t screaming those lies at us constantly?

Because I'm nothing and nobody

I'll stop derailing your thread now, Fuzzybear
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Old Aug 23, 2018, 04:48 AM
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Why do the “professionals” say there is “no point”

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honestly I think it's a case by case thing.

especially in england I find that:

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it's wrong, very wrong.

but sadly that's what they do
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Old Aug 23, 2018, 05:25 AM
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Why do the “professionals” say there is “no point”

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They have no idea what it is like to be like us.

No idea of the love we have been staved of...

They want to bully us into being "so called" normal...

If only they woke up and realised that love and support enable us to be our very best selves.... Best bear in your case Fuzzy

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honestly I think it's a case by case thing.

especially in england I find that:

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it's wrong, very wrong.

but sadly that's what they do

My experience was
Possible trigger:
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Old Aug 23, 2018, 01:07 PM
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Why do the “professionals” say there is “no point”
No medical/psych professional has used those exact words with me, but one medical doctor did say, "There's nothing more my office can do for you." Otherwise, my medical systems have triaged me off to the palliative rather than curative side of things.

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Old Aug 23, 2018, 01:17 PM
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No medical/psych professional has used those exact words with me, but one medical doctor did say, "There's nothing more my office can do for you." Otherwise, my medical systems have triaged me off to the palliative rather than curative side of things.

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That sucks too... it makes me grrrrrr on your behalf
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Old Aug 23, 2018, 01:21 PM
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That “nice” doctor said “I don’t want to give up on you”

That made me wonder... I was not a “high maintenance patient”

And I’d learnt .. in many “schools of hard knocks .. to be “endearing” and to be concise and clear in the 5 minutes available

And then she left, moved away

(I can’t even spell today )
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Old Aug 23, 2018, 02:02 PM
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My experience was
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I’ve heard this before

They don’t want to know

There are no answers

I hate it and I hate me and they hate me
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Old Aug 23, 2018, 02:03 PM
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WHY DONT THEY LISTEN

Why do they tell me I have a “terrible life” and then FORCE me to stay “alive”

I do hate them damn it
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Old Aug 23, 2018, 02:30 PM
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Old Aug 23, 2018, 02:42 PM
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This is VERY dangerous and unethical. I’m sure you don’t need me to tell you this

I find the whole mess in this country VERY scary

And they enjoy calling us “weak” ... if we are “weak” what are they? Monsters
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Old Aug 23, 2018, 02:54 PM
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This is VERY dangerous and unethical. I’m sure you don’t need me to tell you this

I find the whole mess in this country VERY scary

And they enjoy calling us “weak” ... if we are “weak” what are they? Monsters

I know

Only reason I'm still around is cause of poor furbaby Ebony who I will always love and miss
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Old Aug 23, 2018, 02:56 PM
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I don’t understand life

I’m “thick”
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I don’t understand life

I’m “thick”

You're not thick, Fuzzy
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Old Aug 23, 2018, 03:00 PM
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They told me I was “nobody and nothing” as well

Do you think they could be Malignant Narcissists who FEED on our pain.....?? ......and their egos are “fragile” - to put it politely.....
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Old Aug 23, 2018, 03:01 PM
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They told me I was “nobody and nothing” as well

Do you think they could be Malignant Narcissists who FEED on our pain.....?? ......and their egos are “fragile” - to put it politely.....

They are a bunch of vampire bats
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Old Aug 23, 2018, 03:03 PM
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They are a bunch of vampire bats
That’s an insult to bats
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