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The “support” I have received from some of the less unkind “family” members...
I feel like deleting this :-( I quietly and simply mentioned I was feeling anxious. I am competent with words (I have a degree ![]() ![]() So I mentioned anxiety... oh the “shame” of it. (Mad face) Surely I “should” have known better than to talk about anything other than the weather or people they know who I do not know... ![]() I was trying to form some sort of bond. Foolish bear :-( (This reminds me of a very cruel therapist irl who said he wished he knew how to get me to trust him...but when I did trust him somewhat. Wham. The ugly face behind the veil. ![]() ![]() ......... Their reply .. with a snarl.. “what have YOU got to be anxious about”.. Boring? Yes. Very. Where is the love in these “families” ![]() And another “family” member who hardly knew me ![]() ![]() Many of the doctors in this country are similar ![]() No love, no care, no compassion, no insight, no humanity, no soul. ![]() I could “forget” all this (and “move on” ..) if it wasn’t for........... ![]() ![]()
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family members can be the most deadly...
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I am very sensitive...
I love to say that about myself.. I think it is a good thing for me.. but 2 of my family members will make statements about me--- that I am too sensitive...I now say to them that I don't like them saying that about me ...and then we go from there.. I am working on this with them....I no longer will take that crap without defending myself... |
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((((fuzzybear))))
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#7
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my biggest problem is between myself and my wife..
i have learned that this is very common in marriage.. so i have learned so far that what comes OUT OF MY MOUTH... is very important...and i also am watching what my wife says... this has been a major factor in my depression... |
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It's bad enough when people don't understand or have any compassion for your suffering , but when family does it....OMG It's devastating. I always felt that if my family didn't love me or care, no one else should. I'm still getting over these thoughts. I understand how the slightest remark from family can destroy you . They all must not know you because their words and actions are far from the truth.
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This issue is one of the most devastating hurts I carry with me every day. It's the reason I joined PC. I deal with it the best I can but it's a heartache that never goes away. I understand and hope we can find peace and support here. |
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Thanks everyone
![]() I’ve really screwed up today.. barely freakin surviving ![]() But I’m a “survivor” ... ![]() ![]() I will not “beg” those abusers for “help” ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
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what happened fuzzy...
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(((((((((((fuzzy friend))))))))))))))
families are sometimes the worst. dont let them mess with your head. i sometimes worry about the crap that mine have said i have found i get more support online then i need but we are here for you , i say that is true indeed my private messages are open , here and on facebook......... im a good listener and sometimes i have been known to come out with some good advice ( it you want it ) your friend trm / dec
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Hey fuzzy . I wish families were more supportive . Maybe if they were we might not of developed these problems to begin with . Sigh . Sad hugs::
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