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#1
Oct 04, 2018, 01:01 AM
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Was I really just a scapegoat?
Am I really so conditioned that I didn't realize this until now? For years I defended.... I'm not doing so good again, but does it matter?
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 Anonymous40127, Chez3, Fuzzybear, MickeyCheeky, qwerty68, Rohag, SlumberKitty, Wild Coyote
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Oct 04, 2018, 10:03 AM
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 How are you feeling now, Sò leigheas?
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| Fuzzybear, MtnTime2896
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Oct 04, 2018, 10:13 AM
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(((((( So leigheas )))))
Imo .. there are some people who always need a scapegoat.  . I’m not sure what to say right now except that people care about you here. As others have said, you’re precious. Unfortunately, abusers love to divide and to scapegoat . I guess I learnt that in sub optimal therapy by direct experience, as it echoed some of my earlier experiences. But I don’t think that you, or I, were ever “just” a scapegoat 
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Oct 04, 2018, 12:32 PM
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Members here, especially the two of you, keep me from going down the rabit hole of that being all I am.
I couldn't sleep last night. With what happened with my little sister and with the therapy session I had yesterday, I just couldn't clear my head. It was a really hard session and hit some mental pressure points. I guess, the way I should look at it is that I've created a new family with my friends. One where I'm not the scapegoat, I'm just me and that's okay. I just hope I don't lose it. Right now, I'm just sort of here. I don't know how else to put it.
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#5
Oct 04, 2018, 01:05 PM
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I hope you feel better soon. Was the therapy session helpful to you?
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| Fuzzybear, MtnTime2896
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#6
Oct 04, 2018, 01:24 PM
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((((( So leigheas )))))
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#7
Oct 04, 2018, 02:29 PM
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