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Old Jun 28, 2019, 08:18 AM
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I wonder when some peace will come...
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Old Jun 28, 2019, 09:32 AM
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I wonder when some peace will come...
I suffer most from pain when I doubt myself and my ability to deal with life.

It has been said that most anxiety is an expression of self-doubt. It sounds plausible enough. I have crippling (AvPD) self-esteem issues.

Wishing you some peace.
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Old Jun 28, 2019, 04:24 PM
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I suffer most from pain when I doubt myself and my ability to deal with life.

It has been said that most anxiety is an expression of self-doubt. It sounds plausible enough. I have crippling (AvPD) self-esteem issues.

Wishing you some peace.
Thanks Ceph

I have disconnected from myself a lot recently. Too much pressure from life seems to make me forget myself. Even when I try, I seem to reject my own efforts.

If I can't get on with myself, then I can't really expect anyone else to care. I think you are right, it is leading to self doubt.

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Old Jun 29, 2019, 11:25 AM
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Old Jun 30, 2019, 01:26 AM
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Old Jun 30, 2019, 02:01 AM
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I also characterise symptoms of depression as a deep pain, which sometimes feels like it's coming from a wound at the centre of my chest. I think I know what you're feeling because I feel it too.
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Old Jun 30, 2019, 03:12 AM
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I find that every time I hit pain - my brain thinks it's impossible to bear - but in fact each time I build up habits that "comfort" me.
The most important is being patient with myself, suspending panic/ criticism, and being willing to take small steps = whatever works.
Put comfort in quotes because not what my brain sees as "comforting", but the kindness/ attention that some deep buried self needs.
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Old Jul 18, 2019, 04:13 PM
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The pain is part of me, I am AS IS.

My efforts to help it pass and make me well are short term relief.
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The pain is part of me, I am AS IS.

My efforts to help it pass and make me well are short term relief.
i wish i could help...
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Old Jul 19, 2019, 07:00 AM
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i wish i could help...
Thank you Little Turtle.

By being here with your compassion, you do help.
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Old Oct 03, 2019, 08:04 AM
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No respite....

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Old Oct 19, 2019, 04:18 PM
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There is a lot of pain hiding inside me...

It tries to escape and makes my body panic...
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Old Dec 31, 2019, 09:19 AM
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Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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