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Old Mar 11, 2019, 03:59 PM
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I think I have got a friend, it is hard to tell according to the circunstances.
I am very oversharing around him. But he thinks, behaves and have the same tastes I do, the same humor... Less the insecurities and the depression. I think he admires me (so weird).
But it is so refreshing knowing that is ok to be a person like me and that that person turned out ok. He is my model.

I still don't have anyone to talk about my feelings and my past. But let this depression lift for good, let me dwell on my sad past and I will turn out ok.

He makes is own music, it is his pation, I was so afraid to admit I love music and I love to sing. He showed me is own music and we sang random things like crazy people. It is really refreshing.

My past is not my fault, being me isnt faulty.
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Old Mar 11, 2019, 07:22 PM
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I think it's nice to find someone like you. I had a real good friend that lived next door to me one time many years ago and we were a lot alike. Even our family dynamics were very similar. He moved out and then things weren't the same. I have a friend now, but he's not nearly as good as the one who was next door to me. The friend whom I have now is not just like me personally.

There are times when opposites attract. At least that's the way it's been for me. I'm pretty introverted and shy and I tend to be drawn to someone who is the opposite of me. It's exciting that way, but there are lots of times in a relationship like that when it's frustrating. When someone is like you, it's easy to understand each other. And there are times when we're not drawn to someone who is just like us. Perhaps it's because they remind us of our faults, even though we're not aware of it.
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Old Mar 12, 2019, 05:04 AM
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That's great news mulan, it really is. The power of friendship :-)
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Old Mar 12, 2019, 03:50 PM
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Old Mar 12, 2019, 04:01 PM
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I’m glad you’ve found a good friend.
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