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I'm not going to "sit" here and give excuses. That won't change anything. Hell for that matter neither will an apology. So many posts I've been commenting on lately I've been making it about me. There are many times I just want to lash out at some of you & scream "THERE'S NO WAY YOU COULD KNOW THAT." "YOU'RE LYING. THAT'S NOT TRUE AND YOU KNOW IT." No one here deserves that because we are all trying to help in the best way we know how.
I often times want to say
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I don't because it would be taken the wrong way & people will say I'm being mean. In fact (in my opinion) nothing could be further from the truth. I'm being honest & giving the same advice to you as I would myself. If I could go back many decades ago to when I was a kid I would say that to me then and maybe I would have taken it. Sure would have saved me a lot of pain. So rather than lashing out or giving misunderstood advice I have noticed I've been making a lot of comments on others posts about me. And as I type out this out and jump around editing it and adding stuff in I see I'm doing the same thing. So I'm just going to end it here before I look like an even bigger prick __________________ It's only paranoia until it happens. Why I don't trust doctors Things You Wish People Understood About Depression I mean what I say & I say what I mean. |
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I am sorry for your pain... You are being kind when you hold back thoughts that may not be helpful. You are kind in your behaviour towards others when holding back. |
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You may have noticed that I've grown silent around here, my old friend. There are a few reasons for that, but one of them being that I'm afraid my advice wouldn't be helpful. Someone needed me a few months back and I gave them horrible advice. I hated myself for it. ****, I still do. They forgave me. I don't think they should have. I still have this fear, this constant uncertainty within myself, but I'd like to be here for you. Even if it's just telling you I'm around. Take care, my friend.
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I’ve noticed you’ve grown quiet also, old friend (((((( So )))))
I think I give horrible advice sometimes too . (Or rather I sometimes regret having said anything all I also regretted letting down an old friend by not replying to them “quickly enough” somewhere else but that’s a whole other story It wasn’t intentional. I was dissed out but I guess they didn’t realise. NOT anyone on pc. But I’m still here growling I haven’t ever seen you giving “horrible” advice. Sorry for butting in here __________________ |
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