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Old Jun 17, 2019, 03:46 PM
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It sometimes baffles me how wildly differently different people perceive me

Mostly in real life and occasionally online too...

I am not and have never been someone who wants to define someone by their mistakes...

Real or imaginary ....

It’s puzzling to me how hard it is for some people,

Possible trigger:

How it’s so hard for some people to say something like “I’m sorry I hurt you so much, it wasn’t intentional”

As for me, I would apologise to anyone I hurt .... and I do not and never did hurt anyone intentionally...

The parental units “blew up” any tiny mistake i made when growing up...

Into a crime

That I had to always be punished for ...



So.. who am I? Am I that person in the minds of the abusers...
or maybe I’m nobody at all

(Not about anyone on pc)
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Old Jun 17, 2019, 04:08 PM
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You are a kind considerate person.

Your abusers were lying.

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Old Jun 17, 2019, 04:19 PM
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You are a kind considerate person.

Your abusers were lying.

Sending hugs and respect to you
Thank you Thirty shades

Hugs and much respect to you
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Old Jun 17, 2019, 05:18 PM
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You are a kind considerate person.
Agreed!

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Your abusers were lying.
Again, I agree! And I ask myself whether or not they knew they were lying. Is it possible they were so imprisoned in their own reality that their lies to you were not "lies" in that reality?

I have met people who, apparently, could not distinguish or had lost the ability to distinguish between the truth and their own lies.

Peace to you, dear Fuzzybear.
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Old Jun 17, 2019, 05:49 PM
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Agreed!

Again, I agree! And I ask myself whether or not they knew they were lying. Is it possible they were so imprisoned in their own reality that their lies to you were not "lies" in that reality?

I have met people who, apparently, could not distinguish or had lost the ability to distinguish between the truth and their own lies.

Peace to you, dear Fuzzybear.
Thank you dear Rohag
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Old Jun 18, 2019, 01:38 AM
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Agreed!

Again, I agree! And I ask myself whether or not they knew they were lying. Is it possible they were so imprisoned in their own reality that their lies to you were not "lies" in that reality?

I have met people who, apparently, could not distinguish or had lost the ability to distinguish between the truth and their own lies.

Peace to you, dear Fuzzybear.


I too think people believe their own lies. It becomes true to them when they believe an untruth.

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