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Old Jul 13, 2019, 01:48 PM
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It seems my threads and posts are wrong. I talk too much, about too much and it seems to be too much for this forum. My self censor doesnt work well enough i guess. I tried to follow the guidelines but it seems i was not good enough with that.

I heartfeltedly apologize if i ever hurt anyone.

I think now its best if i greet my friends and everyone here and will stop posting.

I dont want to hurt anyone, i dont want to keep writing wrong posts and im not sure I'll be able to censure myself in the future, so for now i prefer to stay quiet in the background, but i send hugs, positive thoughts and thanks to everyone, especially Mopey, Mickey, Fuzzy and everyone else who answewred my posts or just read them.

I hope i didnt hurt anyone, if i did, i deeply apologize.

Greetings and love to everyone
YOU HELPED ME SO MUCH, I THANK YOU ALL FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART AND WISH YOU ALL, ALL THE BEST.

LOVE AND HUGS,
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Old Jul 13, 2019, 01:53 PM
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I don’t think you’re wrong.
(Sorry I didn’t read the whole post.)
Please don’t silence yourself unless you absolutely have to.

In the world in general, imvho, there are too many people who try to control others

Why don’t they work on their own stuff instead.

Is it possible you’ve taken something personally which wasn’t intended? Sorry I’m in a “weird” place right now

PS I read the post. You’ve never hurt me. Hugs and love to you
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Old Jul 13, 2019, 02:03 PM
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Well... gee... I guess I haven't read a lot of your posts. But I have read, & replied to, a few anyway. None of your posts I ever read seemed wrong. So I guess I don't know where this is coming from.

You know... I reply to a lot of posts here on PC (primarily new members'.) And periodically something sets me off for some reason. Sometimes I have to take a couple of days off to let it pass. (This is my second time around here on PC too. Once before I actually closed my account due to frustration not just with PC but with the internet in general.)

Anyway... I don't know what has brought this on. But may I suggest that you perhaps simply take a few days to allow whatever has brought you to this point to settle & then reconsider? I hope you do. Psych Central, & all of us who are on it, are far from perfect. But, all things considered, I think it's a good place to be. My best wishes to you...
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Old Jul 13, 2019, 02:03 PM
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It seems my threads and posts are wrong. I talk too much, about too much and it seems to be too much for this forum. My self censor doesnt work well enough i guess. I tried to follow the guidelines but it seems i was not good enough with that.


I heartfeltedly apologize if i ever hurt anyone.


I think now its best if i greet my friends and everyone here and will stop posting.


I dont want to hurt anyone, i dont want to keep writing wrong posts and im not sure I'll be able to censure myself in the future, so for now i prefer to stay quiet in the background, but i send hugs, positive thoughts and thanks to everyone, especially Mopey, Mickey, Fuzzy and everyone else who answewred my posts or just read them.


I hope i didnt hurt anyone, if i did, i deeply apologize.


Greetings and love to everyone

YOU HELPED ME SO MUCH, I THANK YOU ALL FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART AND WISH YOU ALL, ALL THE BEST.


LOVE AND HUGS,

sinking


Fuzzy you are not wrong at all my friend. I need you always you give me great advice and if is just a hug if also makes me make it thru the day. I don’t think so much on right or wrong these days, I think society has changed a lot and that has made it difficult for me as a guy in his mid 40s, suffering from a divorce, grief etc, but I am still hitting the floor and getting up and facing the battles because people like you and the wonderful people I have met here in this forum your awesome.
HUGS HUGS HUGS
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Old Jul 13, 2019, 02:16 PM
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I don't remember if I ever responded to any of your posts and if I did wrongly please accept my apology. I try to give advice that come straight for my heart and if I don't know what to say I at least say I am sorry for that person and give hugs.

A forum such as this should never give someone a vibe where they feel they should never feel comfortable to ever post again. That is the total opposite of what this forum is suppose to be about. SUPPORTING EACH OTHER AND MAKING ONE ANOTHER FEEL COMFORTABLE. In the short time I have been here I have seen way too many of these sort of posts and really it kind of angers me that people feel this way and that I also myself felt this way. I honestly do feel there are many many wonderful and supportive members on here and I don't know why these threads keep popping up. I am sorry that you feel this way sinking and I truly hope you will reconsider not to stop posting like I did because of the help of a few kind members on here.

** Please if you don't have anything supportive to say then don't say it at all**
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Old Jul 13, 2019, 02:20 PM
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Sinking, I also agree with all of the above posters. I also hope you reconsider and don’t stop posting because there may be one or two people who aren’t supportive. I don’t know, maybe I’m not understanding your post fully. I agree with Misery Business, this forum is about support and if someone has nothing supportive to say, or supportive hugs, they “should” refrain from posting

Hugs and respect to all
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Old Jul 13, 2019, 02:22 PM
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Oh dear, Sinking, what happened? If you want to discuss it with me please PM. If not, I'll hope to hear from you again on the forum after you have a chance to let things settle.
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Old Jul 13, 2019, 02:32 PM
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To better explain, and clatifying, its nobodys fault but mine.

I got a PM from a moderator saying 2 of my threads had to be cancelled because were against the guidelines. and baiscally i got that my censor dont work well enougj for this forum. So instead of creating new and new problems, which i hate and hate myself for this, maybe its better i shut up.
I really tried to be good and respect the rules but it looks like its not and never will be enough. Its beyond my capability.

Its nobodys fault. Only mine.
And i thank you all SO much for everything. Love, hugs and peace to all.
And a HUGE THANK YOU
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Old Jul 13, 2019, 03:26 PM
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(((hugs))))

I hope you will rethink and continue posting here
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