Feeling alone

I feel sad. I miss my boyfriend. I think he won't come back to me. I feel so alone.

I'm sorry about the breakup Desi. But being single isn't always a bad thing. It can be a time to learn more about yourself and what you want.

I feel a huge void in my life. There's not much I can do because of my MI. And have no friends out here.

I'm sorry Desiree.

It's possible to make friends? and fwiw you have us. I'm sorry I'm not much help...

No it is not possible to make friends out here.

sorry desiree...

Desiree, these feelings will pass in time.

It is very hard, most people face this at some point. Allow a little time to process what has happened but set a time limit. The quicker you can focus back on yourself and find positive things to do that bring you some pleasure will help. A walk in nature always used to help me.

Sending lots of hugs and compassion

(((((((((( Desiree )))))))))

much love to you

Much love to you too.

Hey Desiree, I'm sorry. Maybe he'll come back. Loneliness is one of, if not, the hardest thing to deal with. I'm sending you a friend request. I thought I was leaving soon but I'm not. Love going out to you

Is it right to hold on to hope? What if he doesn't come back?
Anyways I give myself another 5-6 months to grieve over my loss. If he doesn't come back by then, I will understand that he's never going to come back.

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Originally Posted by Desiree2006 Is it right to hold on to hope? What if he doesn't come back? Anyways I give myself another 5-6 months to grieve over my loss. If he doesn't come back by then, I will understand that he's never going to come back.

It's not always right to hold on to the hope he will come back. Grieving is ok. If you could speak to him what would you like to hear, but more importantly, what do you want? Something to ponder about maybe?

I don't sleep well. Otherwise the happiness is fleeting. It's mixed with sadness and loss.

Yes, give yourself time to Grieve, Desi. It will pass with time. Take it slowly. Five or six months seems like a good time limit to me. Hang on to that. Who knows? Perhas you'll feel better soon! So yes, I COMPLETELY agree with ALL the other wise and wonderful posters. Please be kind to yourself and of course ALWAYS remember, like Fuzzybear has already WISELY and WONDERFULLY said better than I ever could, that we're here for you and that we're your friends! Feel free to PM me ANYTIME as usual when you need advice and support. I am SURE plenty of others will also GLADLY and WONDERFULLY help you out as well like this thread has already WISELY AND WONDERFULLY SHOWN TO YOU AS WELL! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH You, @Desiree2006, Your Family, Your Friends, Your Ex-Boyfriend, Your Doctors, Your Staff, Your Nurses, Your Parents, Your Relatives, ALL Of The People You Love And Care About And Who ALSO Love You And Care About You And ALL Of Your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking, my dear, sweet friend! You know we'll ALWAYS be here for you! THAT'S A PROMISE!

I would like to hear that he needs time for something to work out for him so he is staying away and that he would come back to me soon maybe in 5-6 months time. This is also what I want.

Sorry to hear. Hope you feel better soon.

Thanks Mickey.

Sorry about my last post Desiree, thought I was typing it on daily check in thread...

It's ok.

Desiree, I remember before....

A time when your bf was missing from your life....
And he came back...

I face a similar situation.
I choose to say he won't come back, he is gone.

Belief without action is no good for me personally...
Actions for me speaker louder than words...

I am hoping and sending fond wishes for your to heal soon

I will still give myself 5-6months time to be completely sure. Meanwhile like you suggested I will focus on myself and try to do positive things that will benefit me.