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TRIGGER WARNING

Do NOT read if you are feeling ''vulnerable''

Fuzzybear

I hear your sanity. The system is abusive.
Sending you hugs, respect, compassion and fortitude.

Thirty shades

life sucks...yes

little turtle

I know this might not help much? But at least you have a roof over your head. Professional care can suck anywhere. Even where I live, many people believe we have great health care. And especially now with covid, all healthcare is delayed due to covid. Doctors that are for extreme health issues are down to video care, or phone appointments because they cant go from the hospital back to their office in a day because of covid restrictions
Hugs to you

I know myself how hard life is. My son cant grt appropriate care. I cant. Life is hard but I try to live in the moment. I'll be happy to eat something tonight if i find something since I've lost all energy

........ I am very grateful for my blessings.

I live ONE day at a time. I do not ''project'' onto others or into ''the future'' ... that is why I am still ALIVE..

''do not compare yourself to others''.... wise words from the Desiderata, I try to live by....

I try to accept people AS IS and do not talk of scary situations where ''others have it worse''...

There are also things I do not speak of....

(that does not change the ''situation'' in this forest. IRL I speak the truth )

i have had many wonderful people in my life that have helped me...
i have had many awful people in my life that have hurt me badly...

i am now looking for people who will help me not hurt me...yes

Good post,

Contrary to what some people in my past may have thought,.

I do not ''dwell'' on the negative...

which is one reason why I rarely post about triggering issues, or at least I try not to... especially in someone elses thread.

Similarly, I do not talk to my friends irl in a condescending way or tell them they are ''whining'' when they are in distress..

personally I was almost on the streets due to negligent parental units

Only because I was STRONG I avoided that!

I did specifically put here, do not read if you are feeling vulnerable. I am feeling ''vulnerable'' today : (

Thank you for your sanity, respect, empathy and understanding dear Thirty shades

I have lived this way for some time now.

So very many in our forest do not have a roof over their heads.

I am grateful, I have a roof.

It makes me that a T will not apply compassion beyond a one line statement to gain trust on day 1.
Experience and discussion, the pain that is present, they react with negativity.
When we seek help, there is no understanding of our truth.
They project a complete lack of compassion for our reality...

Hugs and respect to all

They project complete lack of compassion for our reality.

And this is what we have endured since we were tiny cubs.

I am an intelligent bear and am more than capable of deep thought. The ''professionals'' in our forest use demeaning, blaming words and scare tactics. After YEARS of that, no wonder so many decide to exit

''Compassion'' from a T - a one line statement to gain trust on day 1. This is very familiar to me too

I wonder, why do I bother to express my truth. It isn't worth my time

I ''should'' be grateful for any small crumb. I ''should'' be grateful to the sperm doner and the maternal unit who kicked me onto the streets while they live in luxury I ''should'' have empathy for the abusers Bullshyt

Thanks Thirty shades and little turtle for your compassion and understanding.

Compassion, patience and EMPATHY are vital

Good post

(my OP, for the record, had absolutely nothing to do with....... I already practice gratitude. It also had NOTHING to do with ........................................................... )

hugs and respect to all