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Sunflower123 · Oct 20, 2020 at 03:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Jennifer 1967

Today I would like to:
1. Pick up my groceries, unload the car and put them away
2. Pick up one room
3. Clear out some of my emails

Warmest regards to all.

I completed most of #1 (I haven’t put all of the groceries away), #2 and #3.

Deilla · Oct 20, 2020 at 03:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Jennifer 1967

I completed most of #1 (I haven’t put all of the groceries away), #2 and #3.

That's awesome! I've completed a lot of my tasks already. I plan to spend the remainder of my day relaxing.

Wishing everyone well with their tasks!

Deilla · Oct 25, 2020 at 05:08 PM

I've had a busy day. I washed dishes, washed clothes, cleaned the dining room, decluttered, organized and opened packages.

Tomorrow, I will:

1. Have my junk/donation pile removed.
2. Clean the bathroom.
3. Take a shower.

Sunflower123 · Oct 25, 2020 at 09:00 PM

Tomorrow I will:
1. Attend a Zoom meeting
2. Work out
3. Cook dinner

Deilla · Oct 26, 2020 at 05:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Deilla

Tomorrow, I will:

1. Have my junk/donation pile removed.
2. Clean the bathroom.
3. Take a shower.

I did everything but clean the bathroom. I was tired today. And I got pretty upset over something that's been an issue for a while. I don't know what triggered it. But overall, I think I've had a productive day.

Tomorrow:

1. Clean the bathroom.
2. Clean out the fridge.
3. Cook a meal.

Deilla · Oct 28, 2020 at 05:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Deilla

Tomorrow:

1. Clean the bathroom.
2. Clean out the fridge.
3. Cook a meal.

I was able to clean up in the bathroom and throw some stuff away from my fridge. I didn't cook anything though.

Tomorrow I will:

1. Pick up cat meds.
2. Clean the litter box.
3. Take a shower.

zapatoes · Oct 29, 2020 at 12:30 AM

Today:
1. Do yard work.
2. Go on at least one short walk.
3. Exercise with small hand weights and/or YouTube video for arms.

Completed all three tasks.

Tomorrow want to
1. Mow the front yard since it’s going to rain Friday.
2. Write letter to my niece.
3. Write thank you letter to my mom.

Deilla · Oct 29, 2020 at 01:27 AM

So far I have taken care of my cat's meds and cleaned the litter box. Later I will take a shower.

Today I want to:

1. Wash dishes.
2. Do some art.
3. Read in bed.

Sunflower123 · Oct 29, 2020 at 03:22 AM

Today I want to:
1. Spend time with my daughter
2. Continue with den
3. Attend lecture virtually

Warmest regards to all.

zapatoes · Oct 29, 2020 at 11:53 PM

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Originally Posted by zapatoes

Today:
1. Do yard work.
2. Go on at least one short walk.
3. Exercise with small hand weights and/or YouTube video for arms.

Completed all three tasks.

Tomorrow want to
1. Mow the front yard since it’s going to rain Friday.
2. Write letter to my niece.
3. Write thank you letter to my mom.

Today completed one out of three tasks, mowed the front yard. Sent my mom text messages, and need to write cards to my mom and niece. Today was tired after doing yard work so dragging around some.

Deilla · Oct 30, 2020 at 01:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Deilla

Today I want to:

1. Wash dishes.
2. Do some art.
3. Read in bed.

I started unloading the dishwasher. Maybe I can finish that this morning. I did work on art and read some.

Today I have this planned:

1. Go to my appointment.
2. Do a little more with my art project.
3. Read in bed.

Sunflower123 · Oct 30, 2020 at 05:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Jennifer 1967

Today I want to:
1. Spend time with my daughter
2. Continue with den
3. Attend lecture virtually

Warmest regards to all.

I completed #1 and #2 but went to bed before the lecture. I can catch the replay. Today, I’d like to:

1. Run errands
2. Finish the den
3. Cook a good meal
4. Dive into my new adult coloring books

I’ve already started the den and completed about 2 hours of planning.

Warmest regards to all.

Deilla · Oct 31, 2020 at 03:11 PM

Today I cleaned the litter boxes, washed dishes and ordered groceries. I don't have energy to do anything else. I was happy this morning. Now I am very sad. My online therapist said that I needed to open up more. So I did. And the flood gates opened. I went from a zero on the depression scale to an 8. I don't want to do anything now. I don't want to celebrate Halloween like I planned. I think I will quit therapy. It's not good for me to talk about my problems.

AzulOscuro · Oct 31, 2020 at 07:51 PM

@Deilla, it seems to me a very good idea for a thread. I also tried to do it in the Social phobia forum but I didn’t get any reply. So, I’m grateful for your thread here.

Today I’m grateful because I got overcome a deep depression, one more day of feeling a complete person. I celebrate it.

Then, I interacted online with my two siblings and my nephew and niece. My sister even made me cry of jubile because she showed me how much she cares.

AzulOscuro · Oct 31, 2020 at 07:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Deilla

Today I cleaned the litter boxes, washed dishes and ordered groceries. I don't have energy to do anything else. I was happy this morning. Now I am very sad. My online therapist said that I needed to open up more. So I did. And the flood gates opened. I went from a zero on the depression scale to an 8. I don't want to do anything now. I don't want to celebrate Halloween like I planned. I think I will quit therapy. It's not good for me to talk about my problems.

@Deilla, these downs are normal. Why your therapist told you that you had to open yourself up more. I think the person gives all what (s)he can give at a certain time.
I quit my last psychologist because she asked me too much in a moment I couldn’t give more. For me it was a reg flag. For me, she lost the trust I had on her. Noone, neither a therapist has the right to pressure you. It’s about ourselves and the main concerned people are ourselves so ....

Deilla · Oct 31, 2020 at 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by AzulOscuro

@Deilla, these downs are normal. Why your therapist told you that you had to open yourself up more. I think the person gives all what (s)he can give at a certain time.
I quit my last psychologist because she asked me too much in a moment I couldn’t give more. For me it was a reg flag. For me, she lost the trust I had on her. Noone, neither a therapist has the right to pressure you. It’s about ourselves and the main concerned people are ourselves so ....

@AzulOscuro, thank you! It's a red flag to me too. I feel that she was out of line to push me. She said she was giving me a gentle nudge. Like I said, I tried. It's been 5 hours of troubling emotions since then. But I've been doing some reading, and that is helping. I want to hear her response. I may find another therapist after. This evening I did tell her I couldn't talk about it anymore. I ended up having flashbacks. I'm much better now.

Deilla · Oct 31, 2020 at 10:35 PM

Tomorrow, I hope to do the following:

1. Clean the litter box.
2. Take out the trash.
3. Do some cooking.

Hope everyone is doing well!

Sunflower123 · Nov 01, 2020 at 01:19 PM

I’m having a relaxing day. Today I hope to:
1. Read
2. Paint
3. Watch funny movies.

Warmest regards to all.

AzulOscuro · Nov 02, 2020 at 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Deilla

@AzulOscuro, thank you! It's a red flag to me too. I feel that she was out of line to push me. She said she was giving me a gentle nudge. Like I said, I tried. It's been 5 hours of troubling emotions since then. But I've been doing some reading, and that is helping. I want to hear her response. I may find another therapist after. This evening I did tell her I couldn't talk about it anymore. I ended up having flashbacks. I'm much better now.

Maybe, you can tell your therapist how you felt when (s)he pushed you and clear things up. In the end, they are also persons and can make mistakes. Maybe I was very radical but I felt judged and I couldn’t stand it.
The reading work you did, you know, it counts a lot too. Whatever you do to heal your wounds and help yourself is also very important.

Deilla · Nov 03, 2020 at 02:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Deilla

Tomorrow, I hope to do the following:

1. Clean the litter box.
2. Take out the trash.
3. Do some cooking.

Hope everyone is doing well!

I was able to clean the litter box, get rid of my trash and do a little bit of cooking. So I feel good about that.

Today, I want to:

1. Wash my fruits and vegetables.
2. Use my juicer.
3. Fix my hamburger. I already cooked the patties.

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Deilla Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Oct 2017 Location: Limsa Lominsa Posts: 29,434 (SuperPoster!) 7 49.2k hugs given	Oct 25, 2020 at 05:08 PM #23 I've had a busy day. I washed dishes, washed clothes, cleaned the dining room, decluttered, organized and opened packages. Tomorrow, I will: 1. Have my junk/donation pile removed. 2. Clean the bathroom. 3. Take a shower. __________________ ‘Live for now,’ ‘This too shall pass,’ ‘Everything is happening for my good.’

Sunflower123 Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Jan 2015 Location: USA Posts: 26,557 (SuperPoster!) 9 95k hugs given	Oct 25, 2020 at 09:00 PM #24 Tomorrow I will: 1. Attend a Zoom meeting 2. Work out 3. Cook dinner

zapatoes Grand Magnate Member Since Sep 2018 Location: Islandia Posts: 4,263 6 10.9k hugs given	Oct 29, 2020 at 12:30 AM #27 Today: 1. Do yard work. 2. Go on at least one short walk. 3. Exercise with small hand weights and/or YouTube video for arms. Completed all three tasks. Tomorrow want to 1. Mow the front yard since it’s going to rain Friday. 2. Write letter to my niece. 3. Write thank you letter to my mom.

Deilla Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Oct 2017 Location: Limsa Lominsa Posts: 29,434 (SuperPoster!) 7 49.2k hugs given	Oct 29, 2020 at 01:27 AM #28 So far I have taken care of my cat's meds and cleaned the litter box. Later I will take a shower. Today I want to: 1. Wash dishes. 2. Do some art. 3. Read in bed. __________________ ‘Live for now,’ ‘This too shall pass,’ ‘Everything is happening for my good.’

Sunflower123 Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Jan 2015 Location: USA Posts: 26,557 (SuperPoster!) 9 95k hugs given	Oct 29, 2020 at 03:22 AM #29 Today I want to: 1. Spend time with my daughter 2. Continue with den 3. Attend lecture virtually Warmest regards to all.

Deilla Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Oct 2017 Location: Limsa Lominsa Posts: 29,434 (SuperPoster!) 7 49.2k hugs given	Oct 31, 2020 at 10:35 PM #37 Tomorrow, I hope to do the following: 1. Clean the litter box. 2. Take out the trash. 3. Do some cooking. Hope everyone is doing well! __________________ ‘Live for now,’ ‘This too shall pass,’ ‘Everything is happening for my good.’

Sunflower123 Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Jan 2015 Location: USA Posts: 26,557 (SuperPoster!) 9 95k hugs given	Nov 01, 2020 at 01:19 PM #38 I’m having a relaxing day. Today I hope to: 1. Read 2. Paint 3. Watch funny movies. Warmest regards to all.