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Aug 04, 2021, 09:12 AM
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If I cut out
Possible trigger:
Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr       not about anyone on msf
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Aug 04, 2021, 09:14 AM
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Aug 04, 2021, 10:08 AM
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Perhaps sometimes it is better to be alone than with people whom do not respect us! So Sorry you're feeling lonley!
 Hugs. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Fuzzybear, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!     
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Aug 07, 2021, 08:02 PM
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 Even when the toxic people are gone, the toxins often remain.
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My dog mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it.
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Aug 08, 2021, 12:01 AM
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I pretty much did that & then I totally limit those that show up in my life to as little interface as possible.
I found I was like a glass that was filling up with water (toxins). Living around it 24/7, I filled to overflowing. When I eliminated those people out of my life, my glass continued to get more empty (we can call it evaporation) so now when I run into those kinds of people I am not at overflow level so I have a little more tolerance.....but I also notice when they start filling up my glass again even not being around them 24/7 (so it fills slower) I find my tolerance goes down & I totally limit or remove them from my life ASAP. I find when I have people like that who have caused me to have legal action against them, putting all interface in the hands of a lawyer helps. I still get frustrated & irritated but that distance of not having to be the one to deal directly with them is very helpful at not filling my glass up as quickly as otherwise & hope the legal action wraps up before it does. Personally, living alone on my peaceful little farm surrounded by nature gives me a peaceful time throughout the day to distance & actually allow any toxic crap from getting to me & I do remove anyone who invades my space or I make their lives so miserable they choose to not be around me  
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Aug 08, 2021, 07:24 AM
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I have cut out those who are exceptionally toxic and controlling.
The memories remain but they can no longer create more negativity and distress. Grrrrr, I have a problem with a person that I cannot cut out so easily….. My nerves are on edge and my peaceful loneliness shattered. Sending hugs and respect to you dear Fuzzybear 
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